{"id":70385,"date":"2026-06-17T19:46:35","date_gmt":"2026-06-17T19:46:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fabricegrinda.com\/?p=70385"},"modified":"2026-06-17T19:46:52","modified_gmt":"2026-06-17T19:46:52","slug":"tu-sheldon-cooper-den-tony-stark-voi-mot-chut-phong-cach-alan-watts","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.grinda.org\/vi\/tu-sheldon-cooper-den-tony-stark-voi-mot-chut-phong-cach-alan-watts\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u1eeb Sheldon Cooper \u0111\u1ebfn Tony Stark v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat phong c\u00e1ch Alan Watts"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn v\u1edbi Jodie Cook v\u1ec1 tham v\u1ecdng, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/em><\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn, th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u00e0 \u0111a chi\u1ec1u v\u1edbi <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jodiecook.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Jodie Cook<\/a>. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn v\u1edbi ai: vi\u1ec7c v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 trai t\u00e2n \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 27 v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 l\u0169 ng\u1ed1c; v\u1ee5 ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n r\u00f9m beng \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y cho t\u00f4i b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n v\u00e0 h\u00f3a ra l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi t\u00f4i; m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m ng\u00e0y t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i; vi\u1ec7c cho \u0111i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1edf h\u1eefu v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n; nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh t\u00e2m linh \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch t\u00f4i nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi; v\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i tin ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i m\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang ch\u01a1i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00f4i v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 thi\u00ean th\u1ea7n, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n.  <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch Jodie gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n:<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Fabrice Grinda \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0o h\u01a1n 1.000 c\u00f4ng ty v\u00e0 c\u00f3 h\u01a1n 300 th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ee5 tho\u00e1i v\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. \u00d4ng c\u0169ng coi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i. <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trong cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n n\u00e0y, Fabrice gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00e1ch \u00f4ng suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 tham v\u1ecdng, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, vi\u1ec7c ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u00d4ng chia s\u1ebb h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee5ng v\u1ec1 trong giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y tham v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng ty, m\u1ea5t tr\u1eafng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4, cho \u0111i ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c v\u00e0 thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf l\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>B\u00ean trong video:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>T\u1ea1i sao c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n khi ta coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c ch\u01a1i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u00e1ch Fabrice v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng khai \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y \u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u1ec1 tham v\u1ecdng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u1ea1i sao \u00f4ng cho \u0111i t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u00e1ch \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1edbn trong \u0111\u1eddi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>T\u1ea1i sao \u00f4ng tin r\u1eb1ng ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>C\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u khi m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00d4ng ngh\u0129 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang hi\u1ec3u sai \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u1ec1 r\u1ee7i ro, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3, nghi ng\u1edd n\u00f3 v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng xung quanh nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mong mu\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>C\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=TGM4sNN2uxs&amp;t=481s\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">08:01<\/a> \u2014 T\u1ea1i sao l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c 100 gi\u1edd m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=TGM4sNN2uxs&amp;t=837s\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">13:57<\/a> \u2014 T\u1ea1i sao ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t t\u1eebng x\u1ea3y ra<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=TGM4sNN2uxs&amp;t=1058s\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">17:38<\/a> \u2014 Th\u1eed th\u00e1ch 100 ng\u00e0y b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=TGM4sNN2uxs&amp;t=1536s\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">25:36<\/a> \u2014 Khung ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh cho nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1edbn trong \u0111\u1eddi<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=TGM4sNN2uxs&amp;t=1648s\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">27:28<\/a> \u2014 Cho \u0111i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb con s\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=TGM4sNN2uxs&amp;t=1801s\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">30:01<\/a> \u2014 Khung t\u00e2m linh d\u1eabn d\u1eaft c\u00e1c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=TGM4sNN2uxs&amp;t=2112s\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">35:12<\/a> \u2014 T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1ee3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1ee7i ro l\u1edbn<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=TGM4sNN2uxs&amp;t=2744s\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">45:44<\/a> \u2014 Sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=TGM4sNN2uxs&amp;t=2895s\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">48:15<\/a> \u2014 C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=TGM4sNN2uxs&amp;t=3325s\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">55:25<\/a> \u2014 S\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=TGM4sNN2uxs&amp;t=3680s\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">1:01:20<\/a> \u2014 Li\u1ec7u \u00fd ch\u00ed t\u1ef1 do c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>C\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp: \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 thi\u00ean th\u1ea7n, chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c startup, t\u01b0 duy t\u1eeb nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i, ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng s\u00e0n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ea1i, t\u01b0 duy v\u1ec1 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, r\u1ee7i ro v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i.<\/em><\/p>\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"How this complete loser ended up a BILLIONAIRE INVESTOR\" width=\"840\" height=\"473\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/TGM4sNN2uxs?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>B\u1ea3n ghi ch\u00e9p<\/strong><\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1eafp nghe \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 thi\u00ean th\u1ea7n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t h\u00e0nh tinh. Fabrice Grinda \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0o h\u01a1n 1.000 c\u00f4ng ty, v\u1edbi h\u01a1n 300 th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ee5 tho\u00e1i v\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. \u00d4ng coi to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed.  <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e0nh c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111u\u1ed5i theo th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng. Fabrice \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ra l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao. Trong cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n n\u00e0y, \u00f4ng chia s\u1ebb c\u00e1ch \u00f4ng t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t trai t\u00e2n 27 tu\u1ed5i v\u1edbi k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c 100 gi\u1edd m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n m\u00e0 v\u1eabn th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 \u0111ang ch\u01a1i, v\u00e0 gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1eefa ba qu\u1ed1c gia. \u00d4ng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t trong vi\u1ec7c ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, tri\u1ebft l\u00fd c\u1ea5p ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh t\u00e2m linh \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111i s\u00e2u v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 suy ngh\u0129. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1eebng th\u1eafc m\u1eafc m\u00ecnh \u0111ang thi\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi.     <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 Fabrice.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> Th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt m\u00e0 n\u00f3i, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn n\u00e0y. T\u00f4i l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ec7nh hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 chi\u1ebfc m\u00e1y t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1984. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i 10 tu\u1ed5i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau t\u1eeb c\u00fa nh\u1ea5p chu\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u00e1y t\u00ednh v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh sinh ra l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh cho nhau m\u00e3i m\u00e3i.   <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m tin r\u1ea5t ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 tham v\u1ecdng t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t g\u1ee3n s\u00f3ng trong c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac c\u1ee7a v\u0169 tr\u1ee5. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft tham v\u1ecdng \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u \u2014 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 n\u00f3 t\u1eeb n\u0103m 5 tu\u1ed5i. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh nh\u1ea5t, gi\u1ecfi nh\u1ea5t, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, t\u00f4i c\u00f2n ngh\u0129 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 l\u0169 ng\u1ed1c. T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129: c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00f4ng minh \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i \u0111i h\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh.     <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00f4i t\u1eebng l\u00e0 Sheldon Cooper. Trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m ti\u1ec1n thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 20, t\u00f4i ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 Sheldon Cooper \u2014 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00ean b\u00e0n th\u1edd c\u1ee7a tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 v\u00e0 tham v\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 li\u00ean quan m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u00f4i. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 n\u00ean tham gia ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra l\u00f2ng trung th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh d\u00e0nh cho nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 qu\u1ed1c gia ri\u00eang l\u1ebb n\u00e0o, v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i n\u00f3i chung l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng qua c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 v\u00e0 t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh gi\u1ea3m ph\u00e1t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. V\u00ec v\u1eady, v\u00e0o n\u0103m 10, 11, 12, 13 tu\u1ed5i \u2014 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 80 \u2014 h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 Bill Gates v\u00e0 Steve Jobs. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eafng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c k\u1ef3 thi Olympic v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec3m cao nh\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc Ph\u00e1p. Khi t\u00f4i \u0111i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a Ph\u00e1p, h\u1ecd h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu Steve Jobs v\u00e0 Bill Gates c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean h\u1ecd n\u00f3i: c\u00e1i g\u00ec? C\u1eadu \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i l\u1ea1i l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a C\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng Ph\u00e1p sao.        <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean \u2014 t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi Ph\u00e1p v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 M\u1ef9 t\u1ea1i Hoa K\u1ef3. N\u0103m 17 tu\u1ed5i, t\u00f4i r\u1eddi Nice, n\u01a1i t\u00f4i l\u1edbn l\u00ean. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ecb tr\u1ea5n du l\u1ecbch m\u00f9a h\u00e8 ng\u00e1i ng\u1ee7, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat tham v\u1ecdng, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 \u2014 \u00edt nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u1edf Paris. Nh\u01b0ng th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt m\u00e0 n\u00f3i, t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 M\u1ef9. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn M\u1ef9, h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i Princeton v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec3m trung b\u00ecnh cao nh\u1ea5t l\u1edbp \u2014 to\u00e0n \u0111i\u1ec3m A+ trong chuy\u00ean ng\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.    <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft l\u1eadp tr\u00ecnh v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m trong ng\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7, t\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u1ecdc kinh t\u1ebf v\u00e0 to\u00e1n: to\u00e1n v\u00ec n\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb9p, v\u00e0 kinh t\u1ebf v\u00ec n\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5. T\u1ea1i Princeton, t\u00f4i h\u1ecdc m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u2014 v\u0103n h\u1ecdc Nga, \u0110\u1ebf ch\u1ebf La M\u00e3, ti\u1ebfng Quan Tho\u1ea1i, k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt \u0111i\u1ec7n, sinh h\u1ecdc ph\u00e2n t\u1eed. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi duy nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng theo ng\u00e0nh y m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc sinh h\u1ecdc ph\u00e2n t\u1eed. T\u00f4i l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y v\u00ec s\u1ef1 t\u00f2 m\u00f2 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7. T\u00f4i l\u00e0m ch\u00fang v\u00ec ni\u1ec1m vui.      <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea5u ch\u1ed1t. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t tham v\u1ecdng, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 \u0111ang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111ang ch\u01a1i. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u2014 t\u00f4i l\u00e0m b\u1ed1n c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng l\u00fac \u1edf \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty m\u00e1y t\u00ednh xu\u1ea5t kh\u1ea9u thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb sang M\u1ef9 v\u00e0 ch\u00e2u \u00c2u. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t vui. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t sinh vi\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 l\u00e0 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc nh\u1ed3i nh\u00e9t v\u00e0o \u0111\u00eam tr\u01b0\u1edbc k\u1ef3 thi, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec3m cao, r\u1ed3i qu\u00ean s\u1ea1ch ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i. Princeton c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111o\u1ea1t gi\u1ea3i Nobel h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 n\u01b0\u1edbc Ph\u00e1p, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hai ph\u00fat vinh quang r\u1ed3i sau \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ai nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecd. M\u1ed9t b\u00e0i b\u00e1o khoa h\u1ecdc trung b\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 n\u0103m ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea3y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 gi\u1edd ti\u1ebfp sinh vi\u00ean nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eb3ng ai \u0111\u1ebfn. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129: m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u1ed9 \u00f3c v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u m\u1edbi nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u00e0m, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. C\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn \u0111\u00f3 \u2014 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i s\u1ef1 t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea \u2014 lu\u00f4n d\u1eabn d\u1eaft t\u00f4i \u0111i \u0111\u00fang h\u01b0\u1edbng. N\u00f3 lu\u00f4n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c ch\u01a1i.              <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u00f4 ph\u1ecfng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. M\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng thu\u1ed9c t\u00ednh nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp s\u1eb5n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi sinh ra, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tinh ch\u1ec9nh ch\u00fang th\u00f4ng qua r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i nh\u1eadp vai: th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng t\u1ed1i \u0111a m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 thu\u1ed9c t\u00ednh n\u00e0y m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng thu\u1ed9c t\u00ednh kh\u00e1c t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp s\u1eb5n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Vi\u1ec7c theo \u0111u\u1ed5i s\u1ef1 t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 kim ch\u1ec9 nam cho t\u00f4i.   <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">D\u00f9 v\u1eady, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft nh\u01b0ng khi nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i. T\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p n\u0103m 21 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0o n\u0103m 96, trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a bong b\u00f3ng dot-com, t\u00f4i s\u1ee3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng coi tr\u1ecdng m\u00ecnh \u2014 t\u00f4i v\u1ed1n nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 trang tr\u1ea3i ti\u1ec1n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty &#8220;th\u1ef1c th\u1ee5&#8221;; t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean n\u00e0o. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 n\u1ebfu m\u00ecnh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty th\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, c\u00f2n n\u1ebfu gia nh\u1eadp m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty th\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi tr\u1ecdng. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn McKinsey trong v\u00e0i n\u0103m, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n \u2014 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng kinh doanh, ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd tr\u1ea3 l\u01b0\u01a1ng cho b\u1ea1n. Nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m v\u1eady. T\u00f4i n\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eb3ng Thung l\u0169ng Silicon v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ho\u1eb7c gia nh\u1eadp m\u1ed9t startup, ngay c\u1ea3 khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, v\u00ec th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i t\u1ef1 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc. V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fac t\u00f4i h\u01a1i \u0111i ch\u1ec7ch h\u01b0\u1edbng \u2014 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 xa.       <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sai l\u1ea7m ti\u1ec1m t\u00e0ng ti\u1ebfp theo: T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t startup, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o xu\u1ea5t ch\u00fang. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129, t\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb M\u1ef9 v\u00e0 mang v\u1ec1 ch\u00e2u \u00c2u? V\u00e0o n\u0103m 98, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm. S\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ebfn Thung l\u0169ng Silicon v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ho\u1eb7c gia nh\u1eadp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m r\u1ea5t th\u00fa v\u1ecb. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 huy \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 63 tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la v\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n n\u00f3 t\u1eeb con s\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng l\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn 100 tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la doanh thu v\u00e0 thu\u00ea 150 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eafc r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, t\u00f4i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e1 s\u1ee9c \u2014 t\u00f4i b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp cho s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu kinh nghi\u1ec7m b\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1 gi\u1edd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c thu\u1ea7n t\u00fay. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m gi\u1edd m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n, b\u1ea3y ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n, \u0111i ng\u1ee7 l\u00fac m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 th\u1ee9c d\u1eady l\u00fac n\u0103m gi\u1edd s\u00e1ng, m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.        <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nh\u01b0ng ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c ch\u01a1i. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c; t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t vui. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa hai ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c nh\u01b0 nhau. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang g\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u2014 v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9, v\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u1edbi gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean, hay b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 n\u1ed7i m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m n\u00e0o h\u1ecd mang tr\u00ean vai. \u0110\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u0169ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m gi\u1edd t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, nh\u01b0ng y\u00eau th\u00edch t\u1eebng ph\u00fat gi\u00e2y v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c ch\u01a1i. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c m\u00e3i m\u00e3i. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 lu\u00f4n gi\u00e0nh chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng.        <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i n\u1eefa. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c ch\u01a1i tr\u00f4ng s\u1ebd kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n. <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i n\u00f3. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i \u2014 t\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i cho \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m 27 tu\u1ed5i. T\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ec7nh hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean, l\u00e0 th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Con g\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 xao nh\u00e3ng. Vui \u0111\u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 xao nh\u00e3ng. T\u00f4i c\u1ea7n t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i cho l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng.      <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, khi bong b\u00f3ng v\u1ee1 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i m\u1ea5t t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ cao v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. Khi c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb, b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 ti v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t anh ch\u00e0ng c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng minh, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 t\u1ef1 ti v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u2014 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e1 hay \u0111i bar, t\u00f4i th\u00edch \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0o. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u1edf \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc.    <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb l\u00e0 khi c\u00f4ng ty \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, t\u00f4i t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00f9ng \u2014 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean trang b\u00eca c\u00e1c t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed, Forbes phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n Ph\u00e1p, tin t\u1ee9c l\u00fac t\u00e1m gi\u1edd t\u1ed1i \u2014 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb tr\u1eafng tay. V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc suy ng\u1eabm. T\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eedi cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t email r\u1ea5t d\u00e0i: m\u00ecnh n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec b\u00e2y gi\u1edd? T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf \u0111\u00fang n\u01a1i, \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i duy nh\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng n\u1eafm b\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 suy ngh\u0129 r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u: m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 n\u00ean quay l\u1ea1i McKinsey kh\u00f4ng? Hay \u0111i h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1eddng kinh doanh \u2014 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y h\u01a1i n\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00ec c\u00f4ng ty c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. Hay l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 t\u01b0 nh\u00e2n? V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i t\u00f4i ngh\u0129: ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec trong s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y v\u00ec ti\u1ec1n. T\u00f4i th\u00edch x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb con s\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng. T\u00f4i th\u00edch t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 r\u1ebb h\u01a1n v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 nh\u1ecf b\u00e9, ng\u00e1ch h\u1eb9p v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n trong \u0111\u00f3 \u2014 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u0103m 2001: bong b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ee1, v\u1ed1n m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft, c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd chia s\u1ebb email m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eedi cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3.              <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n xem n\u00f3. V\u1eady l\u00e0 v\u00ec bong b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ee1, \u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129: kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n trong vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn s\u1ebd d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n v\u00e0o v\u00ec m\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00f3. <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean: khi b\u1ea1n vi\u1ebft cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng email n\u00e0y, h\u00e3y suy ngh\u0129 th\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e1o v\u00e0 c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0a ra k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn ngay trong khi \u0111ang vi\u1ebft. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u00e0i t\u1eadp email \u0111\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n. \u0110\u1ec3 t\u00f4i g\u1eedi cho b\u1ea1n c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean.   <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> M\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u1edf McKinsey sau khi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p \u2014 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m v\u00ec \u00f4ng \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 \u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh &#8220;n\u00ean&#8221; l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> Kh\u00f4ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u bu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u00edch n\u00f3. L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, t\u00f4i th\u00edch nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. McKinsey l\u00fac b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd l\u00e0 n\u01a1i t\u1eadp trung nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh nh\u1ea5t, v\u00ec v\u1eady t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng v\u0103n b\u1ea3n, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 \u1edf m\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y th\u00fa v\u1ecb. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t hai n\u0103m c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 bong b\u00f3ng c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 m\u00e0 l\u1ebd ra t\u00f4i n\u00ean l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n trong \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngay trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh. L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u00f4i thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc 500 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00e1t khi\u1ebfp. \u0110\u1ebfn l\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 n\u0103m m\u01b0\u01a1i th\u00ec d\u1ec5 \u1ee3t. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t t\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u1ed1ng k\u00ednh v\u1edbi h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang xem \u2014 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m t\u00f4i nao n\u00fang. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n r\u1ed3i.         <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c nh\u1ea5t. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t ngay t\u1eeb s\u1edbm: h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ti ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n, m\u1ed9t con qu\u1ef7 nh\u1ecf lu\u00f4n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 gi\u1ecfi, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9. T\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i \u2014 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec b\u1ea1n quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ni\u1ec1m tin \u0111\u00f3 lu\u00f4n hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu.    <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00ec v\u1eady, McKinsey kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0o l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3. McKinsey, gia nh\u1eadp m\u1ed9t startup, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t startup \u2014 c\u1ea3 ba h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. \u0110\u1ebfn th\u1eb3ng Thung l\u0169ng Silicon c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat so v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ebfn McKinsey r\u1ed3i v\u1ec1 Ph\u00e1p, nh\u01b0ng sao c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0, t\u00f4i su\u00fdt n\u1eefa \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng ty c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi gi\u00e1 300 tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la v\u00e0 l\u1ebd ra \u0111\u00e3 ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 120 tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t t\u1eebng x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi t\u00f4i \u2014 b\u1edfi v\u00ec l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o, \u00e1i k\u1ef7, \u00edch k\u1ef7, hay coi th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n th\u1eadt d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng n\u00f3. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng khai nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u2014 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u00f4i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u2014 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc h\u1eefu \u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn.        <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">N\u00f3 c\u0169ng d\u1ea1y t\u00f4i ng\u1eebng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t. Th\u1ef1c ra, \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ea1y t\u00f4i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u00e9p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2. T\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra kh\u00e1c nhau, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb duy nh\u1ea5t. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 IQ v\u00e0 tham v\u1ecdng \u2014 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u00fa v\u1ecb. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh hay v\u1edbi h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra: t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra kh\u00e1c nhau, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t c\u1ea3. V\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ti, v\u00ec t\u00f4i qu\u00e1 gi\u1ecfi trong vi\u1ec7c th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 tham v\u1ecdng nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 t\u1ec7 trong vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n, hay c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch ri\u00eang. M\u1ed9t khi t\u00f4i r\u0169 b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ti v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd, c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u2014 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u2014 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t. T\u1eeb m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o, coi th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb ri\u00eang. Nh\u01b0ng qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb n\u0103m 25 ho\u1eb7c 26 tu\u1ed5i, sau th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng khai \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c cho \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u tu\u1ed5i ba m\u01b0\u01a1i, khi t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ.          <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng xem. N\u1ebfu ph\u1ea3i x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c m\u1ed9t n\u0103m m\u00e0 phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n Fabrice 2.0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o? <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n. \u0110\u1ebfn McKinsey n\u0103m 21 tu\u1ed5i, v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1996, v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh, th\u00fa v\u1ecb kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i kia \u2014 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u00ecm h\u1ecd \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. Sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u startup c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1999\u20132000 v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra: t\u00f4i t\u1eebng ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t l\u01b0u lo\u00e1t v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111am m\u00ea th\u1ef1c ra l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. S\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i m\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 do t\u00f4i \u1edf trong nh\u1eefng m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng ch\u00ed h\u01b0\u1edbng, n\u01a1i t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ni\u1ec1m \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y \u0111\u01b0a t\u00f4i l\u00ean s\u00e2n kh\u1ea5u v\u00e0 \u2014 \u00f4i tr\u1eddi \u01a1i, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eadt t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. V\u00ec v\u1eady, khi startup th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2001, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129: m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 tin, h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i, t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 v\u00e0 trong kinh doanh, v\u1eady m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u1edf trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd h\u1eb9n h\u00f2. T\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i nh\u1ec9?        <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd m\u1edf l\u1eddi m\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111i ch\u01a1i trong \u0111\u1eddi, th\u00ec kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3. V\u00ec v\u1eady, trong m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m ng\u00e0y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u00e9p m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i m\u1eddi c\u00e1c c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111i ch\u01a1i tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ed1 New York \u2014 m\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4 g\u00e1i m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, trong m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m ng\u00e0y, t\u1ed5ng c\u1ed9ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u00ecn c\u00f4 g\u00e1i. M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n; m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i. L\u1ee3i th\u1ebf l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng h\u1ecfi xin ti\u1ec1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m v\u00e0 b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i, n\u00ean theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd quen v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb kh\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb.   <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> Chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 di\u1ec5n ra th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 l\u1eafm. <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf ch\u1ea1y theo h\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, v\u00ec n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 c\u1ee5c \u2014 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang m\u1eddi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 xinh \u0111\u1eb9p ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i ch\u01a1i. Nh\u01b0ng nh\u1edd quy lu\u1eadt s\u1ed1 l\u1edbn, m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n di\u1ec5n ra kh\u00e1 t\u1ed1t. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 45 cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n, trung b\u00ecnh c\u1ee9 c\u00e1ch m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0, t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u0111i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 trong \u0111\u1eddi, v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c nhau. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n \u2014 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi tranh lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 Locke v\u1edbi Hobbes, Rousseau v\u1edbi Voltaire. H\u00f3a ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 xinh \u0111\u1eb9p ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ed1 New York l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eabu ki\u00eam di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean \u2014 th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean pha ch\u1ebf v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eabu \u0111\u1ea7y tham v\u1ecdng \u2014 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eddi trang v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tin t\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed m\u1edbi nh\u1ea5t, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng tr\u00f9ng kh\u1edbp. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n, n\u00ean t\u00f4i nhanh ch\u00f3ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u00f3 n\u00ean l\u00e0 \u0111i u\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i \u0103n t\u1ed1i. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1edbm nh\u1eadn ra chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00f3 quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c trong bu\u1ed5i h\u1eb9n th\u1ee9 hai c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ee7 t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u2014 t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fat k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 n\u00e0o s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 v\u1eabn h\u1eefu \u00edch, v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i. Sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111i t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p thay v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 xinh \u0111\u1eb9p ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean, v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n.           <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ti\u1ebfp theo l\u00e0 startup k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp. Th\u1eadt th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u2014 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i g\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u00f3. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m m\u00ecnh \u0111ang x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng, nh\u1eefng s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m m\u00ecnh \u0111ang b\u00e1n, l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh \u0111ang tham gia, hay nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 c\u1ea3.   <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ee3i nhu\u1eadn ch\u1ee9?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e1n nh\u1ea1c chu\u00f4ng. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 mang nh\u1ea1c chu\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn M\u1ef9. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: trong m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n, h\u00e3y c\u1ee9 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n, theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2001, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u2014 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngu\u1ed3n v\u1ed1n n\u00e0o s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3. \u0110am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7, t\u1ea1i M\u1ef9, l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u1edf New York, v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111ang y\u00eau say \u0111\u1eafm m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i (chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh). V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n \u1edf New York, \u1edf M\u1ef9, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n t\u1eeb c\u00e1c qu\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m; c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft; n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t doanh nghi\u1ec7p nh\u1ecf, ng\u00e1ch. V\u00ec v\u1eady, thay v\u00ec x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ki\u1ec3u c\u00f4ng ty m\u00e0 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra l\u1ee3i nhu\u1eadn v\u1edbi ngu\u1ed3n v\u1ed1n r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng doanh nghi\u1ec7p nh\u1ea1c chu\u00f4ng \u2014 m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nghe nh\u1ea1c, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng ty \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c l\u00e0 l\u0169 ng\u1ed1c. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 v\u1eady th\u1eadt. H\u1ecd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n cho h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la. C\u00e1c c\u00f4ng ty \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y.           <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nh\u1eefng s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m m\u00ecnh \u0111ang b\u00e1n, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 vi\u1ec7c cung c\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 s\u00e0nh \u0111i\u1ec7u cho thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00edch quy tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y \u2014 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00f4ng ty, thu\u00ea \u0111\u1ed9i ng\u0169, m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng quy m\u00f4, th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ee5 \u2014 m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng trong \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n t\u1eeb qu\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m, v\u00ec v\u1eady t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00f4ng ty \u0111\u00f3 theo c\u00e1ch truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng: d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean l\u1ee3i nhu\u1eadn. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 su\u00fdt ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ee3 l\u01b0\u01a1ng 27 l\u1ea7n, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 b\u1ed1n th\u00e1ng li\u00ean ti\u1ebfp. Ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t hai n\u0103m r\u01b0\u1ee1i m\u1edbi ch\u1ed1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi nh\u00e0 m\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ed1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t th\u00edch ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 doanh thu \u0111\u00e3 t\u0103ng t\u1eeb 1 tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la l\u00ean 5 tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebfn 200 tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la, c\u00f3 l\u00e3i. Sau \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i b\u00e1n n\u00f3 \u2014 h\u01a1i s\u1edbm, nh\u01b0ng s\u1edbm c\u00f2n h\u01a1n mu\u1ed9n, v\u00e0 b\u00e1n l\u1ea5y ti\u1ec1n m\u1eb7t, v\u00ec c\u1ed5 phi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ty tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3m 99,98%. \u1ede tu\u1ed5i 29, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kho\u1ea3ng 43 tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u00e3 mang l\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3, v\u00e0 gi\u1edd t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 v\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n.          <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac t\u00f4i quay l\u1ea1i x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c s\u00e0n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra OLX. OLX gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 Craigslist cho ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, nh\u01b0ng \u01b0u ti\u00ean di \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u2014 v\u00ec ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u00ednh trong m\u1ecdi gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng \u1edf ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 n\u00e0o, thu\u00ea ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00f4ng tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o, mua chi\u1ebfc xe v\u00e0 b\u1ed9 gh\u1ebf sofa n\u00e0o. Craigslist l\u00e0 trang web \u00edt th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111\u1ea7y r\u1eaby l\u1eeba \u0111\u1ea3o, m\u1ea1i d\u00e2m v\u00e0 r\u00e1c r\u01b0\u1edfi. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129: \u1edf c\u00e1c th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1edbi n\u1ed5i nh\u01b0 \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9, Pakistan v\u00e0 Brazil, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng thanh to\u00e1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1eadn chuy\u1ec3n. Li\u1ec7u t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t trang web tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n trong c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng? Ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u2014 l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 b\u1edfi v\u1ed1n m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n n\u00f3 l\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn 350 tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng m\u1ed7i th\u00e1ng. Kho\u1ea3ng 5% d\u00e2n s\u1ed1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 h\u00e0ng th\u00e1ng; h\u00e0ng ch\u1ee5c tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ki\u1ebfm s\u1ed1ng t\u1eeb n\u00f3. \u1ede nh\u1eefng qu\u1ed1c gia \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn l\u00e1 th\u01b0 t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng k\u1ec3 cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nghe v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra. V\u00ec v\u1eady, tham v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.           <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> N\u0103m 5 tu\u1ed5i, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 tham v\u1ecdng t\u1ea1o ra hi\u1ec7u \u1ee9ng g\u1ee3n s\u00f3ng. V\u1edbi OLX \u2014 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng tin nh\u1eafn \u0111\u00f3 \u2014 l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 \u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u00f4ng sinh ra \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng? <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> \u1ed2, c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3. T\u00f4i h\u1ecdc kinh t\u1ebf v\u00ec n\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i y\u00eau c\u00e1c th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00ec ch\u00fang mang l\u1ea1i hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 cho nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 v\u1ed1n m\u1edd m\u1ecbt v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n m\u1ea3nh. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 r\u1ebb h\u01a1n, ch\u00fang l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n s\u1ee9c mua c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c s\u00e0n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ea1i. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a internet l\u00e0 r\u1ebb h\u01a1n, t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, nhanh h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n mang \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn cho h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m tri\u1ec7u \u2014 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i l\u00e0 h\u00e0ng t\u1ef7 \u2014 ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft OLX l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ty m\u00e0 t\u00f4i sinh ra \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng. Ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i y\u00eau n\u00f3. Gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t, s\u1ee9 m\u1ec7nh \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t.        <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1eddi thay, m\u1ed9t khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 l\u1ea1i x\u1ea3y ra \u2014 t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi s\u1ee9 m\u1ec7nh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa. H\u00e3y h\u00ecnh dung n\u0103m 2012: T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eafng tr\u1eadn. M\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty kh\u1ed5ng l\u1ed3, 11.000 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean, 30 qu\u1ed1c gia, th\u01b0 t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, m\u1ed9t trang web h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u \u1edf m\u1ed7i qu\u1ed1c gia \u0111\u00f3 \u2014 s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn to l\u1edbn t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u1eefa, v\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u, t\u00f4i tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp vi\u1ebft c\u00e1c c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng s\u1ed1 k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. M\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 11.000 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean v\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty ni\u00eam y\u1ebft c\u00f4ng khai, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ng\u00e2n s\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng qu\u00fd v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c con s\u1ed1. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 quay l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n. \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra n\u1ebfu \u2014 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u1edfng \u2014 t\u00f4i r\u1eddi b\u1ecf c\u00f4ng ty m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp, n\u01a1i t\u00f4i \u0111ang nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 th\u00f9 lao v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn, b\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m n\u1eefa? V\u00e0 t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac, v\u00ec t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y n\u1eefa. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t email d\u00e0i kh\u00e1c, v\u1ea1ch ra t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111i\u00ean r\u1ed3 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m thay th\u1ebf. T\u00f4i vi\u1ebft n\u00f3 v\u00e0o m\u00f9a h\u00e8 n\u0103m 2012, khi t\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 CEO c\u1ee7a OLX.            <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> Khi \u00f4ng vi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng d\u00f2ng n\u00e0y, c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u00f4ng \u0111ang vi\u1ebft cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u1edf hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady, g\u1eedi cho ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i \u1edf hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. T\u00f4i tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y r\u00f5 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, t\u00f4i h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u00e1c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0 g\u00ec, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn \u2014 tranh c\u1eed \u1edf Cuba, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc gi\u1ea3 c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. Sau \u0111\u00f3, thay v\u00ec t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng cho m\u1ed7i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u2014 c\u00e1i ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tung h\u00f4 \u2014 t\u00f4i t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y <em>b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/em>. N\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tr\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, \u01b0u v\u00e0 nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u00e0 g\u00ec? T\u00f4i s\u1ebd th\u00edch g\u00ec? T\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch g\u00ec? Sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i g\u1eedi email cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 t\u00f4i \u2014 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n \u2014 v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi hai c\u00e2u: v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u00f4i, b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 t\u00f4i n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec? V\u00e0, n\u1ebfu l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn kh\u00e1c nhau. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd l\u00e0 CEO c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u1edbi m\u1ee9c l\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u1edf l\u1ea1i. K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0: tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng. B\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb con s\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng.            <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 quay l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t (first principles). T\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch vi\u1ec7c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u2014 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u0103n h\u1ed9, n\u00ean b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3; m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1, n\u00ean b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng \u1edf \u0111\u00f3; m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m b\u1ea1n, n\u00ean b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p h\u1ecd. Chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i \u0111em t\u1eb7ng h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 cho t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb h\u01b0 v\u00f4? Nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u h\u00f4m nay? T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec? T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n g\u1eb7p ai?      <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u00e0i t\u1eadp m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua sau khi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eddi OLX. T\u00f4i quay v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m d\u1ea7n \u2014 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi s\u1ebd l\u00e0 g\u00ec. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eed ng\u1ee7 nh\u1edd tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf sofa nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ea3m h\u1ecda to\u00e0n t\u1eadp. T\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e1i thi\u1ebft th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 h\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, ch\u01a1i tennis. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u1edbi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n, c\u00f2n h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 con. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ed9ng th\u00eam; t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 phi\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec5u. V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3.      <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ee7 tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf sofa n\u1eefa ch\u1ee9.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> Ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eed nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9. T\u00f4i \u1edf Airbnb trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m. T\u00f4i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c kh\u00e1ch s\u1ea1n. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eed \u1edf m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i trong m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n r\u1ed3i chuy\u1ec3n \u0111i m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi. T\u00f4i th\u1eed hai th\u00e1ng, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u. T\u00f4i c\u1ee9 th\u1eed \u0111i th\u1eed l\u1ea1i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ee7 nhi\u1ec1u. C\u00f3 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng: b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m, v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u. Trong b\u1ea3y n\u0103m, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t khu t\u1ed5 h\u1ee3p l\u1edbn \u1edf C\u1ed9ng h\u00f2a Dominica, v\u00e0 trong su\u1ed1t b\u1ea3y n\u0103m \u0111\u00f3, v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng. T\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i blog v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 &#8220;\u0111\u00e1 v\u00e0o m\u1ed3m&#8221; \u2014 th\u1ef1c ra n\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00ean l\u00e0 \u201cV\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111ang th\u00ec th\u1ea7m v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.\u201d Trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u0111\u00f3.           <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> V\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi x\u1ea3y ra g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y sao?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady, g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y th\u00f4i. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh ch\u1ecdn C\u1ed9ng h\u00f2a Dominica v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i ch\u1ec7ch h\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, h\u1ebft l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb khi t\u00f4i nghi\u00eam t\u00fac b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00e2m linh, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra kh\u00e1 ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean \u2014 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ba h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh s\u00e2u s\u1eafc: m\u1ed9t v\u1edbi ayahuasca, m\u1ed9t v\u1edbi psilocybin, v\u00e0 v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n v\u1edbi LSD. K\u1ec3 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, khi t\u00f4i c\u00f2n ph\u1edbt l\u1edd ch\u00fang.    <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i. T\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i blog d\u00e0i v\u1ec1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u2014 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng: \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c nh\u1ea5t. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ecd ngh\u0129 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng trong khi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i, m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c d\u1ea1o ch\u01a1i. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo \u0111u\u1ed5i t\u00e2m linh th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ec1n: \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 thu\u1eadn theo d\u00f2ng ch\u1ea3y r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf sofa ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 x\u1ea3y ra. Thu\u1eadn theo d\u00f2ng ch\u1ea3y c\u1ee7a con s\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u1ea3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, sau \u0111\u00f3 quan s\u00e1t ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec3 xem li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111ang \u0111i \u0111\u00fang h\u01b0\u1edbng hay kh\u00f4ng. B\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng. Nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb tu s\u0129 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n thi\u1ec1n c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y, theo t\u00f4i, \u0111ang b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 m\u00f4 ph\u1ecfng n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 si\u00eau tho\u00e1t hay t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi. Thi\u1ec1n t\u00f4ng s\u1ebd g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u00e1m ch\u1ea5p v\u00e0o h\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng; Watts s\u1ebd n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea5u ch\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f9a. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i, b\u1ea1n quay l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng \u2014 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft h\u01a1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e2u. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i. Tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ngay c\u1ea3 khi ch\u00fang ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u2014 r\u1eddi b\u1ecf m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty khi \u0111ang \u1edf \u0111\u1ec9nh cao, t\u1eb7ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n cho t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n, kh\u1edfi nghi\u1ec7p c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2001 khi ng\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 b\u1ecb coi l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft\u201d v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o t\u00f4i n\u00ean \u0111i h\u1ecdc kinh doanh ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m qu\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 t\u01b0 nh\u00e2n.               <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">H\u00e3y l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u. T\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng \u2014 ph\u00e2n b\u1ed5 \u1edf ba n\u01a1i r\u01b0\u1ee1i, v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng theo quy chu\u1ea9n \u2014 nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c v\u00ec b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh \u201cn\u00ean\u201d l\u00e0m. H\u00e3y l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u.   <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho c\u00e1c startup. B\u1ea1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng, b\u1ea1n th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m \u2014 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u1eed r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9, tung m\u1ecdi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00ean \u2014 v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u. Trong m\u1ed9t startup, \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ch\u1eadm; b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nhanh. H\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, h\u00e3y b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp. N\u1ebfu c\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n c\u00e1ch m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau 10 l\u1ea7n, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1ch 50%, th\u00ec v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ef1 th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. S\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u2014 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh, n\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec \u2014 nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u. B\u1ea1n n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u xem li\u1ec7u n\u00f3 c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 hay kh\u00f4ng d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean d\u1eef li\u1ec7u v\u00e0 c\u00e1c t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.       <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> T\u00f4i t\u1eebng nghe c\u00e2u n\u00f3i, \u201cv\u0169 tr\u1ee5 ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e1m m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m l\u1edbn.\u201d T\u00f4i \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eefng canh b\u1ea1c l\u1edbn v\u1eady. <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t startup nh\u1ecf c\u0169ng t\u1ed1n c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t startup l\u1edbn v\u1eady. M\u1edf m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng c\u0169ng t\u1ed1n c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty t\u1ef7 \u0111\u00f4. V\u1eady n\u00ean b\u1ea1n th\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1i l\u1edbn c\u00f2n h\u01a1n. Ch\u01a1i l\u1edbn ho\u1eb7c \u0111i v\u1ec1. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n \u2014 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t n\u00e0o \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y c\u1ea3. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng; c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 th\u00edch tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng. H\u00e3y t\u1ed1i \u01b0u h\u00f3a cho nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.      <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00e0 th\u1ef1c ra t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m l\u1edbn nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m nh\u1ecf. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 n\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi h\u1ecd \u2014 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, \u0111am m\u00ea, t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. V\u0169 tr\u1ee5 ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng cho s\u1ef1 d\u1ea1o ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui. H\u00e3y vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 ham ch\u01a1i trong m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ef1 d\u1ea1o ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e1p v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u00e9p m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec n\u00f3 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng.     <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 lu\u00f4n \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u1ecdc c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u, ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i, theo \u0111u\u1ed5i ni\u1ec1m vui \u2014 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho ai kh\u00f4ng? <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> C\u00f3 ch\u1ee9. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u r\u1ee7i ro th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i. Startup \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n \u2014 th\u00ec sao ch\u1ee9? T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1i McKinsey ho\u1eb7c Goldman trong t\u00edch t\u1eafc. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n; t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu\u00ea t\u00f4i; t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ee7 nh\u1edd tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf sofa nh\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 r\u1ee7i ro th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. M\u1eb7t tr\u00e1i l\u00e0 g\u00ec \u2014 t\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 trong v\u00e0i n\u0103m \u01b0? \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y t\u1eadn th\u1ebf. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ed5i ph\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 r\u1ee7i ro m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang g\u00e1nh ch\u1ecbu. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n \u2014 th\u00ec sao? Kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u1ee7 c\u00e1i \u0103n, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n \u1edf n\u01a1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 sang tr\u1ecdng, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa buffet \u0103n th\u1ecfa th\u00edch gi\u00e1 n\u0103m \u0111\u00f4 v\u1eabn t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u00e0. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 qu\u00e1 cao m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 r\u1ee7i ro th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 r\u1ee7i ro n\u00e0o c\u1ea3.             <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Th\u1ee9 hai, \u0111\u00fang v\u1eady, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u00e2y quanh m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. T\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u00e2y quanh m\u00ecnh b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u01b0 duy t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1. T\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi h\u1ecd c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra \u2014 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thi\u00ean ki\u1ebfn x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn cho ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111ang ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i h\u1ecd. T\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111ang \u01b0u \u00e1i t\u00f4i, n\u00ean n\u00f3 l\u00e0m v\u1eady. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i v\u00e2y quanh m\u00ecnh b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi vui v\u1ebb, l\u1ea1c quan, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng tin nh\u01b0 v\u1eady: r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i, b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng ni\u1ec1m vui, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng h\u00f3a m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n.    <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> Khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 11.000 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u2014 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3 th\u00e0nh k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ti\u1ebfp theo? Email b\u1ea1n vi\u1ebft cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o? <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u00f4i h\u00e0nh thi\u1ec1n v\u00e0 th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh t\u00e2m linh \u2014 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y 30 th\u00e1ng 5 n\u0103m 2015. Khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u00ecnh \u0111ang ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, b\u1ea1n suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 v\u00e0 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ecfng l\u1ebbo v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac. \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i y\u00eau th\u00edch \u1edf vi\u1ec7c vi\u1ebft l\u00e1ch l\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac h\u00f3a suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t b\u00fat xu\u1ed1ng, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i \u2014 nh\u1eefng \u01b0u v\u00e0 nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nghi\u1ec1n ng\u1eabm v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 trong nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1ng, v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c vi\u1ebft l\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m r\u00f5 cho qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3. D\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft ra \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac h\u00f3a t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u01a1 s\u1edf cho k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i n\u00ean r\u1eddi \u0111i.     <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> Th\u1eadt th\u00fa v\u1ecb khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ENTJ. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ENTJ; ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i l\u00e0 INTJ. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi NTJ \u2014 t\u00f4i su\u00fdt n\u1eefa \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t podcast t\u00ean l\u00e0 \u201cNTJ Radio.\u201d V\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 gi\u1ecfi nh\u1ea5t.   <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i \u1edf ranh gi\u1edbi \u2014 t\u00f4i th\u00edch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch. Nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n phi\u1ebfm (small talk) l\u00e0m t\u00f4i c\u1ea1n ki\u1ec7t n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng; t\u00f4i gh\u00e9t n\u00f3. T\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi \u0111i Burning Man v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch t\u00e1n g\u1eabu v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1.  <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> Ch\u1eef N r\u1ea5t h\u1ee3p l\u00fd \u2014 tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c, t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn, \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u1edbi t\u00e2m linh. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eef T v\u00e0 J c\u00f3 v\u1ebb m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a logic v\u00e0o m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 gi\u1eb1ng co \u0111\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u00e0y 30 th\u00e1ng 5 n\u0103m 2015 kh\u00f4ng?  <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i b\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m tra, n\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thi\u00ean v\u1ec1 ch\u1eef F (c\u1ea3m x\u00fac) nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> C\u00f3 l\u1ebd v\u1eady \u2014 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t th\u00fa v\u1ecb. Ki\u1ec3u ENTJ l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 huy: ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, b\u00e1m l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. V\u1eady l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u00e0 \u2014  <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> T\u00f4i nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 theo c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u00e1m ch\u1ea5p v\u00e0o k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 quan s\u00e1t n\u00f3 di\u1ec5n ra nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, r\u1ed3i \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. T\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cu\u1ed3ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, ngay c\u1ea3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y.   <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> V\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u201cb\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d \u2014 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng \u201ckh\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e2u, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.\u201d B\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng cho r\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m. Ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u?   <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u2014 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd n\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c, m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m. <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> \u1ed2, c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9. Khi t\u00f4i 10 tu\u1ed5i, t\u00f4i c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 kh\u00f3 \u01b0a. T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ea3o b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 tr\u00ean b\u00e0n \u0103n r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd n\u00ean bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00ec c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o, kh\u00f3 \u01b0a \u2014 ki\u1ec3u Sheldon Cooper. T\u00f4i b\u1ea3o h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u, nh\u01b0ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb h\u1ecd. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, tr\u1edb tr\u00eau thay, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ngoan nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3: nh\u1ea3y l\u1edbp, to\u00e0n \u0111i\u1ec3m A+, ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd g\u00e2y r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111i ch\u01a1i khuya. Theo \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a \u0111en l\u00e0 gi\u1ecfi nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi m\u1eb7t \u2014 nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng v\u00e0 hay ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t, kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m cho l\u1eafm.      <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> V\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> \u1ed2, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1ed3i. M\u1eb9 t\u00f4i hay tr\u00eau t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00fang v\u1eady, h\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c.   <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> Angel d\u1ea1o n\u00e0y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> C\u00f4 \u1ea5y b\u1ecb nhi\u1ec5m tr\u00f9ng m\u1eaft, n\u00ean c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111eo loa che c\u1ed5 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i nh\u1ecf thu\u1ed1c v\u00e0o m\u1eaft c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 t\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u1eabn \u1ed5n. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, b\u1edfi v\u00ec \u2014 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4ng minh b\u1eb1ng, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng sao c\u1ea3. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng tham v\u1ecdng b\u1eb1ng, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng sao. H\u1ecd l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u01b0u v\u00e0 nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m ri\u00eang v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd y\u00eau th\u00edch. T\u00f4i t\u1eebng hay ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t; b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd. T\u00f4i t\u1eebng mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ho\u1eb7c ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t h\u1ecd theo m\u1ed9t khung gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u v\u00f4 gi\u00e1 \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecd. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u2014 c\u1ea3m \u01a1n b\u1ea1n v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho ph\u00e9p t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 t\u00f4i y\u00eau th\u00edch h\u00f4m nay n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 cho ph\u00e9p t\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1: s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch sai l\u1ea7m duy nh\u1ea5t n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u1ed5n. V\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh \u2014 nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00f3. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 t\u00f9y \u1edf b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng g\u00ec. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t gi\u1eefa h\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd.                <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> Th\u1eadt bu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi \u2014 t\u00f4i v\u1eeba m\u1edbi vi\u1ebft ch\u1eef \u201cl\u1eddi khuy\u00ean\u201d khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00f3. V\u1eady v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi xin l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n? <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> T\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n t\u1ef1 nghe: n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m; n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i l\u00e0 t\u00f4i trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m; v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 quy tr\u00ecnh t\u00f4i s\u1ebd tu\u00e2n theo. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd vi\u1ec7c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh xem n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u hay kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo n\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 t\u00f9y \u1edf b\u1ea1n. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi \u2014 nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng b\u00e1m ch\u1ea5p v\u00e0o k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n hay kh\u00f4ng.   <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u00e1ch t\u00f4i l\u00e0m t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng, khi t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ee5 tho\u00e1i v\u1ed1n l\u1edbn, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 t\u1eb7ng ti\u1ec1n cho b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u2014 b\u1edfi v\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn t\u1ed1t cho nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1m da li\u1ec5u \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh chuy\u1ec3n sang nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u ung th\u01b0 v\u00e0 c\u1eaft gi\u1ea3m l\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111i n\u0103m l\u1ea7n. T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd v\u1eady \u2014 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi cho h\u1ecd. V\u00ec v\u1eady, th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng t\u00f4i s\u1ebd t\u1eb7ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady 100.000 ho\u1eb7c 200.000 \u0111\u00f4 la, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u00f4i l\u00e0m: n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ef3, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u01b0\u1edbng s\u1ea1ch n\u00f3 \u1edf Vegas, \u0111i ngh\u1ec9 m\u00e1t, \u0111\u1eb7t c\u1ecdc mua nh\u00e0 \u2014 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng. H\u00e3y cho \u0111i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do, kh\u00f4ng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng. H\u00e3y l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn n\u00ean l\u00e0m, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n y\u00eau qu\u00fd h\u1ecd. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng \u1edf ph\u00eda b\u00ean kia. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c v\u00ec ch\u00fang l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn n\u00ean l\u00e0m.         <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> C\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u00f4i n\u00ean h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng? <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u2014 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i blog g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y \u2014 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng s\u1ee3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 (FOMO) v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c v\u00ec h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh n\u00ean l\u00e0m, v\u00ec h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3, ho\u1eb7c v\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 hay x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. R\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, thay v\u00ec lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngh\u0129. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i \u2014 lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngh\u0129, trong khi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf ch\u1eb3ng ai th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd c\u1ea3, v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u201cn\u00ean\u201d thay v\u00ec v\u00ec h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n. \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c v\u00ec CV hay v\u00ec danh ti\u1ebfng. H\u00e3y l\u00e0m ch\u00fang v\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n. Khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m v\u1eady, theo quan s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra.      <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> Tr\u01b0\u1edbc tu\u1ed5i 27, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n t\u1eebng h\u1eb9n h\u00f2, l\u00fac m\u1ea3i m\u00ea nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 k\u1ebb ng\u1ed1c \u2014 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 n\u00e0o, hay lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng? Hay b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3? <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> T\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd quan t\u00e2m, b\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00f4i ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t h\u1ecd v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00f4ng minh. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t t\u00f4i v\u00ec v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u201czin\u201d \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 27, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t h\u1ecd v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng. V\u00ec v\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng \u2014 t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd quan t\u00e2m.  <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i \u201cl\u1eddi khuy\u00ean cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9\u201d ch\u01b0a?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> \u0110i\u1ec1u bu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0, khi t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng, c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u2014 b\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00f4i y\u00eau cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. Bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng khai \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 25 ho\u1eb7c 26, bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c c\u00f2n \u201czin\u201d cho \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m 27 tu\u1ed5i, bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o, tr\u1ecbch th\u01b0\u1ee3ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u201cs\u1eeda ch\u1eefa\u201d t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i lo r\u1eb1ng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ebd t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n. N\u00f3 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c \u0111i, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ecbch b\u1ea3n m\u00e0 n\u00f3 t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. T\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng.     <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> Khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng khai \u2014 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho bi\u1ebft s\u01a1 qua v\u1ec1 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u00f4ng khai c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> T\u00f4i xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean b\u1ea3n tin t\u00e1m gi\u1edd m\u1ed7i t\u1ed1i v\u00e0 tr\u00ean trang b\u00eca c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed. V\u00ec v\u1eady, khi c\u00f4ng ty ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n \u2014 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tranh c\u00e3i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3 \u2014 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y x\u00f4n xao d\u01b0 lu\u1eadn r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 k\u00fd m\u1ed9t th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 (NDA), n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra. H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i b\u1ecb h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh.   <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec trong khi nh\u1eefng d\u00f2ng t\u00edt \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang ch\u1ea1y?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> Th\u1eadt bu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t quan t\u00e2m. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129: m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u0111i x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng startup ti\u1ebfp theo \u2014 ngay c\u1ea3 khi n\u00f3 nh\u1ecf v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n. <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> T\u00f4i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi \u2014 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd k\u1ec3 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> T\u00f4i ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t th\u1ee9 l\u1edbn lao nh\u1ea5t \u2014 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf \u0111\u00fang n\u01a1i, \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 tu\u1ed9t kh\u1ecfi t\u1ea7m tay. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u00f4i t\u1eebng c\u00f3 m\u1ed7i khi y\u00eau v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh \u2014 k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y. Trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 tan n\u00e1t t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. Nh\u01b0ng th\u00fa v\u1ecb l\u00e0: b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, khi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra, t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn trong \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n. Trong bu\u1ed5i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 th\u1ee9 hai v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, sau khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y r\u1eddi \u0111i, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eedi cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y m\u1ed9t tin nh\u1eafn tho\u1ea1i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, \u201c\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, anh y\u00eau em\u201d \u2014 v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i ngh\u0129, c\u00e1i qu\u00e1i g\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, m\u00ecnh v\u1eeba n\u00f3i y\u00eau c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ngay bu\u1ed5i h\u1eb9n th\u1ee9 hai. Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 t\u00f4i x\u00f3a n\u00f3 \u0111i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y trong n\u0103m th\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfp theo, v\u00ec t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 trong nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i chia tay g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t an \u2014 m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd y\u00eau nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o nh\u1ea5t t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn nay. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 \u0111ang \u0111\u1ebfn. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 linh t\u00ednh v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y.          <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Th\u1eadt bu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi \u2014 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m nay t\u00f4i m\u1edbi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e2m linh n\u00e0y. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n, v\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean y\u00eau ai. Nh\u01b0ng, tin hay kh\u00f4ng t\u00f9y b\u1ea1n, Dan Brown \u2014 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a <em>M\u1eadt m\u00e3 Da Vinci<\/em> \u2014 v\u1eeba ph\u00e1t h\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch m\u1edbi, <em>The Secret of Secrets<\/em>, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t nh\u1ecb (non-dual). N\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u; t\u00f4i \u0111ang \u0111\u1ecdc n\u00f3 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. L\u1ea7n n\u00e0y \u00f4ng \u1ea5y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch hay. Nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t nh\u1ecb n\u00e0y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eb1m trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u00f4i su\u1ed1t s\u00e1u \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng qua.     <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc cu\u1ed1n <em>Tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u01a1i n\u00f3<\/em> ch\u01b0a?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> Ch\u01b0a, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i ng\u1edd r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft ra n\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t c\u0169 \u2014 b\u1ea3n in th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 t\u1eeb n\u0103m 1941, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1edbm h\u01a1n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 1920. C\u1ee7a Florence Scovel Shinn. N\u00f3 ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u1eeb cu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f3 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t logic, ho\u00e0i nghi v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, \u201ch\u00e3y \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n,\u201d th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n n\u00e0o?     <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> Th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt m\u00e0 n\u00f3i, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ecdc b\u00e0i blog c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. N\u00f3 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u2014 m\u1ea5t kho\u1ea3ng m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc. L\u00fd do n\u00f3 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0i nghi, l\u00fd tr\u00ed l\u00e0 v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n: \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 t\u01b0 duy khoa h\u1ecdc, l\u00fd tr\u00ed, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u00f4i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch n\u00f3. N\u00f3 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ed1t cho nh\u1eefng tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 ho\u00e0i nghi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eadp lu\u1eadn cho l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, so v\u1edbi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 t\u00e2m linh m\u01a1 h\u1ed3 kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. Th\u1eadt d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u201cv\u0169 tr\u1ee5 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cMaya l\u00e0 \u1ea3o \u1ea3nh,\u201d nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u2014 v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i kh\u00e1i qu\u00e1t h\u00f3a t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3.     <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn b\u00e0i blog \u0111\u00f3 th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch ch\u01b0a?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> B\u00e0i \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. C\u1ea3 blog n\u00f3i chung th\u00ec kh\u00f3 h\u01a1n. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ee3i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi c\u00e1c con t\u00f4i l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c: nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch phi h\u01b0 c\u1ea5u ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng trung t\u00e2m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i n\u0103m m\u01b0\u01a1i l\u1ea7n. Blog c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 v\u1eady n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 trung t\u00e2m \u2014 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m linh, ho\u1eb7c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng, ho\u1eb7c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 g\u00e2y qu\u1ef9. Vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, vi\u1ec7c ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t nh\u1ecb khi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 kh\u00f3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00e1n gi\u1ea3, v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 t\u00f2 m\u00f2 r\u1ea5t \u00edt v\u00e0 th\u01b0a th\u1edbt; h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u h\u1eb9p h\u00f2i h\u01a1n. V\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ec1 r\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp khi\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch xung quanh m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t duy nh\u1ea5t tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.       <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i <em>ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n<\/em> l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t sao? Ngay c\u1ea3 khi m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc n\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, n\u1ebfu t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00edch v\u00e0 k\u1ec3 cho nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01a1n \u2014 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1. <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u201ctr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi.\u201d Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n vi\u1ebft c\u00f3 t\u00ean l\u00e0 <em>Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng: C\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3<\/em>. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 \u2014 nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ee3i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng minh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.   <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? V\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n bao nhi\u00eau tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3? <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, th\u00edch nghi t\u1ed1t, \u0111ang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang \u2014 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, kh\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u1ebd s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft kh\u00e1 s\u1edbm, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 25 ho\u1eb7c 30 tu\u1ed5i. Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i ch\u00fang l\u00e0 b\u1ed1n tu\u1ed5i, hai tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 \u00e2m ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u1ea5y ph\u00f4i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang thai h\u1ed9 v\u00e0o tu\u1ea7n t\u1edbi \u2014 \u0111\u1ee9a th\u1ee9 ba. Con trai t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3: m\u1ed9t n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, khi n\u00f3 ba tu\u1ed5i, n\u00f3 n\u00f3i n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a em trai. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a con trai \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u1ecbch d\u1ea1i v\u1edbi chi\u1ebfc Seabob v\u00e0 b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u2014 kh\u00f4ng v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n; tr\u1ebb con l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u chuy\u1ec7n ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n m\u00e0. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi t\u00f4i th\u00f4ng qua n\u00f3. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi n\u00f3: con c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a em trai kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng, r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u1ea7n b\u00fa s\u1eefa, r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i, h\u1ecdc \u0111i kh\u00f4ng? V\u00e0 n\u00f3 n\u00f3i, \u201cV\u00e2ng, nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng em \u1ea5y s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t. Con mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a em trai.\u201d V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129: \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i, v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111ang b\u1ea3o m\u00ecnh h\u00e3y t\u1ea1o cho n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a em trai.         <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">T\u00f4i c\u00f3 ph\u00f4i \u0111\u00f4ng l\u1ea1nh t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ebfn tr\u1ee9ng \u2014 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ebfn khi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 con, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 sau m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 ayahuasca. N\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u: trong bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp \u2014 n\u00f4n m\u1eeda, kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c, la h\u00e9t. Th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u2014 ca h\u00e1t, nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, vui v\u1ebb. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 u\u1ed1ng b\u1ed1n c\u1ed1c, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn, trong khi t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i ngh\u0129, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn nay, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y.    <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nh\u01b0ng b\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u2014 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 qua \u0111\u1eddi h\u01a1n 20 n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u2014 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u. B\u00e0 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 lu\u00f4n c\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u1ea1i vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 con v\u00ec t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ni\u1ec1m tin \u0111\u00f3 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean d\u1eef li\u1ec7u quan s\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c: nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 con c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t kh\u1ecfi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i, h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 than phi\u1ec1n v\u1ec1 con c\u00e1i m\u1ed7i khi t\u00f4i g\u1eb7p h\u1ecd. Nh\u01b0ng b\u00e0 n\u00f3i: con sai r\u1ed3i. Con c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, n\u00ean con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf New York l\u00e0m sai l\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c (helicopter parents) \u2014 h\u1ecd thay th\u1ebf cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang b\u1eb1ng con c\u00e1i, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i hay nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n n\u1eefa, h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u201cnh\u1eefng b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh\u201d. \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0m th\u1ebf. H\u00e3y c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con v\u00e0 mang con c\u00e1i theo c\u00f9ng; ch\u00fang s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y vui th\u00f4i. Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con ba v\u00e0 b\u1ed1n tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1ee3t tuy\u1ebft b\u1eb1ng tr\u1ef1c th\u0103ng, l\u01b0\u1edbt v\u00e1n di\u1ec1u, leo n\u00fai, nh\u1ea3y d\u00f9 l\u01b0\u1ee3n \u2014 t\u00f4i cho con v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ecbu v\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111i c\u1eafm tr\u1ea1i. \u0110\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. B\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00fang khi n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n \u2014 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u2014 so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i mong \u0111\u1ee3i. V\u00e0 b\u00e0 n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng l\u1ee3i \u00edch mang l\u1ea1i l\u1edbn h\u01a1n t\u00f4i t\u01b0\u1edfng. M\u1ecdi b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng \u201c\u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t\u201d, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt chung chung. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 <em>t\u1ea1i sao<\/em> b\u00e0 ngh\u0129 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i: con y\u00eau th\u00edch vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y \u2014 con \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y \u1edf Harvard v\u00e0 Stanford \u2014 v\u00e0 con s\u1ebd th\u00edch d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 con nh\u1eadn ra ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh trong \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 con l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn x\u00e1c. Con th\u00edch ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a \u2014 con ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed, con \u0111ua xe v\u00e0 m\u00e1y bay \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n t\u1eeb xa. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd cho con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i c\u1edb th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n l\u1edbn h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafp r\u00e1p Lego v\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ed9 m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh xe l\u1eeda. Con s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn nay, v\u00e0 con s\u1ebd y\u00eau th\u00edch \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.                 <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Trong bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa ch\u00f3 ch\u0103n c\u1eebu \u0110\u1ee9c m\u00e0u tr\u1eafng gh\u00e9 th\u0103m, n\u00f3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i, m\u1ed9t ng\u1ecdn h\u1ea3i \u0111\u0103ng trong v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 t\u0103m t\u1ed1i \u2014 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa ch\u00f3 tr\u1eafng v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i. B\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 Ghost trong <em>Game of Thrones<\/em> l\u00e0 h\u01b0 c\u1ea5u, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa ch\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1eadt, m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa ch\u00f3 ch\u0103n c\u1eebu \u0110\u1ee9c m\u00e0u tr\u1eafng. H\u00e3y \u0111i t\u00ecm t\u00f4i. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i y\u00eau bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 \u0111\u00f3: t\u00f4i \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u1ed9ng th\u00eam con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa ch\u00f3 ch\u0103n c\u1eebu tr\u1eafng, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 trai c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 g\u00e1i, v\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c nhau. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p kh\u00e1c t\u1eeb bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0: n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, h\u00e3y b\u1ecf qua. B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2018 \u2014 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 khi t\u00f4i r\u1eddi C\u1ed9ng h\u00f2a Dominica. Sau bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng: h\u00e3y \u0111i theo nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u m\u00e0 v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111ang g\u1eedi cho b\u1ea1n. V\u1eady n\u00ean m\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 kho\u1ea3ng b\u1ea3y hay t\u00e1m n\u0103m nay t\u00f4i m\u1edbi gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u thay v\u00ec g\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u00e9p m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9.       <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> Anh c\u00f3 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn chi\u00eam tinh h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> Kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n. Li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u1ea9n sau n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i thu\u1ed9c ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201ch\u00e3y th\u1eed d\u00f9ng ch\u1ea5t th\u1ee9c th\u1ea7n, h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9\u201d h\u01a1n \u2014 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n m\u1ed7i n\u0103m, v\u1edbi li\u1ec1u l\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1eb9. Nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 chuy\u00ean s\u00e2u, nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, cho \u0111\u1ebfn nay l\u00e0 ba l\u1ea7n. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd xem khi n\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 ti\u1ebfp theo v\u1eaby g\u1ecdi.     <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> V\u1eady cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng anh c\u00f3 tin r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1eb5n kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 thuy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ec7nh \u1edf c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 v\u0169 tr\u1ee5, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ngh\u0129 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u00fd ch\u00ed t\u1ef1 do c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, c\u1ee5c b\u1ed9 \u2014 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u1ea3o gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. T\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ngh\u0129 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u00fd ch\u00ed t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee5c b\u1ed9 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, ngay c\u1ea3 khi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u1edf quy m\u00f4 thi\u00ean h\u00e0. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng thi\u00ean h\u01b0\u1edbng, v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 \u0111i theo ch\u00fang hay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta. V\u00ec v\u1eady, v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 tr\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ec7nh, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn c\u00f3 \u00fd ch\u00ed t\u1ef1 do c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u2014 v\u00e0 d\u00f9 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111i n\u1eefa, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i k\u1ebft c\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a v\u0169 tr\u1ee5.   <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> T\u00f4i c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n v\u1edbi n\u00f3 \u2014 vi\u1ec7c ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u1edf c\u00e1c c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c nhau l\u00e0 t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i \u1edf c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 cao nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng qu\u00e2n b\u00e0i m\u00ecnh c\u00f3. Ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean li\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed \u2014 m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang b\u1ecb l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 tham v\u1ecdng kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.   <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady \u2014 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Alan Watts. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed7i \u0111\u00eam b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u01a1 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi d\u00e0i 80 n\u0103m, l\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd m\u01a1 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7y r\u1eaby kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng sau v\u00e0i \u0111\u00eam, khi \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n m\u1ecdi \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i: c\u00f3 l\u1ebd m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh <em>kh\u00f4ng<\/em> ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u2014 \u0111\u1ec3 xem \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3, th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00e0 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. V\u00e0 khi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00eam ti\u1ebfp theo tr\u00f4i qua, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd m\u01a1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u xa x\u00f4i v\u00e0 hoang d\u1ea1i h\u01a1n \u2014 bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 \u0111au kh\u1ed5, chi\u1ebfn tranh, b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt \u2014 v\u00ec m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng ch\u00ednh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang d\u1eabn d\u1eaft ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tin r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang.      <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i \u0111ang t\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m ch\u00ednh n\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 v\u0169 tr\u1ee5; ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111ang t\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. V\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 Ch\u00faa \u2014 nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean \u0111i t\u00ednh thi\u00eang li\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00ec cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t. V\u00e0 l\u00fd do ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh qu\u00ean \u0111i t\u00ednh thi\u00eang li\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb th\u1ea7n b\u1ea5t t\u1eed, to\u00e0n n\u0103ng, to\u00e0n tri, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n. S\u1ef1 m\u00f4 ph\u1ecfng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m m\u1edbi l\u1ea1 cho m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb th\u1ea7n b\u1ea5t t\u1eed v\u1ed1n \u0111ang bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n. B\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 t\u00ednh th\u1ea7n th\u00e1nh, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c h\u00f3a (manifesting) c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u2014 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng si\u00eau n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c n\u00e0y, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean ch\u00fang th\u00f4i. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 m\u00ecnh t\u00f4i: t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb th\u1ea7n. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb th\u1ea7n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u01a1i di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng. H\u1ecd ngh\u0129 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu Kit\u00f4. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 Ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t, nh\u01b0ng <em>t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3<\/em> ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb th\u1ea7n. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u0169 tr\u1ee5, v\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta l\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t t\u1eadp h\u1ee3p con c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. V\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 Jodie, t\u00f4i l\u00e0 Fabrice \u2014 nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n h\u00f3a lo\u00e0i v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u0169 tr\u1ee5. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi t\u00f4i d\u00f9ng acid: t\u00f4i nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean t\u1eed c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i b\u00e0n v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang \u0111ang chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u00ec gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3ng kh\u00f4ng. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i.                <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> Anh c\u00f3 d\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Fabrice Grinda:<\/strong> Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n \u2014 kh\u00f4ng chu\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng rung. B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1edf trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u1ebfu trong khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, c\u00e1c th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o c\u1ee9 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c hi\u1ec7n l\u00ean; ngay c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng rung c\u0169ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n xao nh\u00e3ng kh\u1ecfi hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 ngh\u0129 \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i h\u1eefu \u00edch cho vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1ed3i \u2014 t\u00f4i d\u00f9ng WhatsApp su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u00edch xem nh\u1eefng video YouTube h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng l\u01b0\u1edbt m\u1ea1ng v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ecbnh (doom-scrolling). T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea1o n\u1ed9i dung nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ti\u00eau th\u1ee5 n\u1ed9i dung \u2014 t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft c\u00e1c b\u00e0i blog, \u0111\u0103ng b\u00e0i tr\u00ean Instagram, Facebook v\u00e0 YouTube. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng xem TikTok, Instagram hay Facebook nhi\u1ec1u, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng theo d\u00f5i tin t\u1ee9c n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 tin t\u1ee9c v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i b\u1eaby \u2014 m\u1ed9t c\u1ed7 m\u00e1y t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 ph\u1eabn n\u1ed9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec.        <\/p>\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Jodie Cook:<\/strong> \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 Fabrice Grinda \u2014 nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 thi\u00ean th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 doanh nh\u00e2n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c coi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 theo d\u00f5i anh \u1ea5y tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 xem anh \u1ea5y s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec ti\u1ebfp theo. \u0110i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t t\u1eeb cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n n\u00e0y m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1eed \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec?  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn v\u1edbi Jodie Cook v\u1ec1 tham v\u1ecdng, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f4 &hellip; <a href=\"\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":70335,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[253],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-70385","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-phong-van-tro-chuyen-ben-lo-suoi"],"acf":[],"contentUpdated":"T\u1eeb Sheldon Cooper \u0111\u1ebfn Tony Stark v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat phong c\u00e1ch Alan Watts. Categories - Ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n &amp; Tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n b\u00ean l\u00f2 s\u01b0\u1edfi. Date-Posted - 2026-06-17T19:46:35 . \n Cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn v\u1edbi Jodie Cook v\u1ec1 tham v\u1ecdng, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi\n T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn, th\u00e2n m\u1eadt v\u00e0 \u0111a chi\u1ec1u v\u1edbi Jodie Cook. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn v\u1edbi ai: vi\u1ec7c v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 trai t\u00e2n \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 27 v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 l\u0169 ng\u1ed1c; v\u1ee5 ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n r\u00f9m beng \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y cho t\u00f4i b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n v\u00e0 h\u00f3a ra l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi t\u00f4i; m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m ng\u00e0y t\u00f4i c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i; vi\u1ec7c cho \u0111i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1edf h\u1eefu v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n; nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh t\u00e2m linh \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1ch t\u00f4i nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi; v\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i tin ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i m\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang ch\u01a1i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00f4i v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 thi\u00ean th\u1ea7n, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n.  \n D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch Jodie gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n:\n Fabrice Grinda \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0o h\u01a1n 1.000 c\u00f4ng ty v\u00e0 c\u00f3 h\u01a1n 300 th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ee5 tho\u00e1i v\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. \u00d4ng c\u0169ng coi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i. \n Trong cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n n\u00e0y, Fabrice gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00e1ch \u00f4ng suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 tham v\u1ecdng, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, vi\u1ec7c ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ed1ng.\n \u00d4ng chia s\u1ebb h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee5ng v\u1ec1 trong giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y tham v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng ty, m\u1ea5t tr\u1eafng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4, cho \u0111i ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c v\u00e0 thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf l\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n.\n B\u00ean trong video:\n T\u1ea1i sao c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n khi ta coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c ch\u01a1i\n C\u00e1ch Fabrice v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i\n Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng khai \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y \u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u1ec1 tham v\u1ecdng\n T\u1ea1i sao \u00f4ng cho \u0111i t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u\n C\u00e1ch \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1edbn trong \u0111\u1eddi\n T\u1ea1i sao \u00f4ng tin r\u1eb1ng ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch\n C\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u khi m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3\n \u00d4ng ngh\u0129 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang hi\u1ec3u sai \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u1ec1 r\u1ee7i ro, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3, nghi ng\u1edd n\u00f3 v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng xung quanh nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mong mu\u1ed1n.\n C\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng:\n 08:01 \u2014 T\u1ea1i sao l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c 100 gi\u1edd m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c\n 13:57 \u2014 T\u1ea1i sao ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t t\u1eebng x\u1ea3y ra\n 17:38 \u2014 Th\u1eed th\u00e1ch 100 ng\u00e0y b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9\n 25:36 \u2014 Khung ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh cho nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u1edbn trong \u0111\u1eddi\n 27:28 \u2014 Cho \u0111i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb con s\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng\n 30:01 \u2014 Khung t\u00e2m linh d\u1eabn d\u1eaft c\u00e1c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh\n 35:12 \u2014 T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1ee3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1ee7i ro l\u1edbn\n 45:44 \u2014 Sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i\n 48:15 \u2014 C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o\n 55:25 \u2014 S\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3\n 1:01:20 \u2014 Li\u1ec7u \u00fd ch\u00ed t\u1ef1 do c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i?\n C\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp: \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 thi\u00ean th\u1ea7n, chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c startup, t\u01b0 duy t\u1eeb nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i, ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng s\u00e0n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ea1i, t\u01b0 duy v\u1ec1 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c, r\u1ee7i ro v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i.\n B\u1ea3n ghi ch\u00e9p\n Jodie Cook: Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1eafp nghe \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 thi\u00ean th\u1ea7n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t h\u00e0nh tinh. Fabrice Grinda \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0o h\u01a1n 1.000 c\u00f4ng ty, v\u1edbi h\u01a1n 300 th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ee5 tho\u00e1i v\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. \u00d4ng coi to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed.  \n H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e0nh c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111u\u1ed5i theo th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng. Fabrice \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ra l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao. Trong cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n n\u00e0y, \u00f4ng chia s\u1ebb c\u00e1ch \u00f4ng t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t trai t\u00e2n 27 tu\u1ed5i v\u1edbi k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c 100 gi\u1edd m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n m\u00e0 v\u1eabn th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 \u0111ang ch\u01a1i, v\u00e0 gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1eefa ba qu\u1ed1c gia. \u00d4ng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t trong vi\u1ec7c ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, tri\u1ebft l\u00fd c\u1ea5p ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh t\u00e2m linh \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111i s\u00e2u v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 suy ngh\u0129. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1eebng th\u1eafc m\u1eafc m\u00ecnh \u0111ang thi\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi.     \n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 Fabrice.\n Fabrice Grinda: Th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt m\u00e0 n\u00f3i, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn n\u00e0y. T\u00f4i l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ec7nh hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 chi\u1ebfc m\u00e1y t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1984. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i 10 tu\u1ed5i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau t\u1eeb c\u00fa nh\u1ea5p chu\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft m\u00e1y t\u00ednh v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh sinh ra l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh cho nhau m\u00e3i m\u00e3i.   \n T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m tin r\u1ea5t ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 tham v\u1ecdng t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t g\u1ee3n s\u00f3ng trong c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac c\u1ee7a v\u0169 tr\u1ee5. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft tham v\u1ecdng \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u \u2014 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 n\u00f3 t\u1eeb n\u0103m 5 tu\u1ed5i. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh nh\u1ea5t, gi\u1ecfi nh\u1ea5t, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, t\u00f4i c\u00f2n ngh\u0129 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 l\u0169 ng\u1ed1c. T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129: c\u00e1c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00f4ng minh \u0111\u1ec3 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i \u0111i h\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh.     \n T\u00f4i t\u1eebng l\u00e0 Sheldon Cooper. Trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m ti\u1ec1n thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 20, t\u00f4i ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 Sheldon Cooper \u2014 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t l\u00ean b\u00e0n th\u1edd c\u1ee7a tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 v\u00e0 tham v\u1ecdng, v\u00e0 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 li\u00ean quan m\u1eadt thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u00f4i. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 n\u00ean tham gia ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb kh\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra l\u00f2ng trung th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh d\u00e0nh cho nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 qu\u1ed1c gia ri\u00eang l\u1ebb n\u00e0o, v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i n\u00f3i chung l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng qua c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 v\u00e0 t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh gi\u1ea3m ph\u00e1t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. V\u00ec v\u1eady, v\u00e0o n\u0103m 10, 11, 12, 13 tu\u1ed5i \u2014 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 80 \u2014 h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 Bill Gates v\u00e0 Steve Jobs. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eafng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c k\u1ef3 thi Olympic v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec3m cao nh\u1ea5t n\u01b0\u1edbc Ph\u00e1p. Khi t\u00f4i \u0111i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a Ph\u00e1p, h\u1ecd h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7, gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu Steve Jobs v\u00e0 Bill Gates c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean h\u1ecd n\u00f3i: c\u00e1i g\u00ec? C\u1eadu \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i l\u1ea1i l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a C\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng Ph\u00e1p sao.        \n V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean \u2014 t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi Ph\u00e1p v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 M\u1ef9 t\u1ea1i Hoa K\u1ef3. N\u0103m 17 tu\u1ed5i, t\u00f4i r\u1eddi Nice, n\u01a1i t\u00f4i l\u1edbn l\u00ean. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ecb tr\u1ea5n du l\u1ecbch m\u00f9a h\u00e8 ng\u00e1i ng\u1ee7, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat tham v\u1ecdng, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 \u2014 \u00edt nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u1edf Paris. Nh\u01b0ng th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt m\u00e0 n\u00f3i, t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 M\u1ef9. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn M\u1ef9, h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i Princeton v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec3m trung b\u00ecnh cao nh\u1ea5t l\u1edbp \u2014 to\u00e0n \u0111i\u1ec3m A+ trong chuy\u00ean ng\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.    \n V\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft l\u1eadp tr\u00ecnh v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m trong ng\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7, t\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u1ecdc kinh t\u1ebf v\u00e0 to\u00e1n: to\u00e1n v\u00ec n\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb9p, v\u00e0 kinh t\u1ebf v\u00ec n\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5. T\u1ea1i Princeton, t\u00f4i h\u1ecdc m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u2014 v\u0103n h\u1ecdc Nga, \u0110\u1ebf ch\u1ebf La M\u00e3, ti\u1ebfng Quan Tho\u1ea1i, k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt \u0111i\u1ec7n, sinh h\u1ecdc ph\u00e2n t\u1eed. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi duy nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng theo ng\u00e0nh y m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc sinh h\u1ecdc ph\u00e2n t\u1eed. T\u00f4i l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y v\u00ec s\u1ef1 t\u00f2 m\u00f2 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7. T\u00f4i l\u00e0m ch\u00fang v\u00ec ni\u1ec1m vui.      \n V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea5u ch\u1ed1t. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t tham v\u1ecdng, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 \u0111ang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111ang ch\u01a1i. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u2014 t\u00f4i l\u00e0m b\u1ed1n c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng l\u00fac \u1edf \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty m\u00e1y t\u00ednh xu\u1ea5t kh\u1ea9u thi\u1ebft b\u1ecb sang M\u1ef9 v\u00e0 ch\u00e2u \u00c2u. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t vui. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t sinh vi\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u00e0i t\u1eadp v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 l\u00e0 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc nh\u1ed3i nh\u00e9t v\u00e0o \u0111\u00eam tr\u01b0\u1edbc k\u1ef3 thi, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111i\u1ec3m cao, r\u1ed3i qu\u00ean s\u1ea1ch ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00e0 vui v\u1ebb, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i. Princeton c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111o\u1ea1t gi\u1ea3i Nobel h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 n\u01b0\u1edbc Ph\u00e1p, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hai ph\u00fat vinh quang r\u1ed3i sau \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ai nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecd. M\u1ed9t b\u00e0i b\u00e1o khoa h\u1ecdc trung b\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 n\u0103m ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea3y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecdc. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 gi\u1edd ti\u1ebfp sinh vi\u00ean nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eb3ng ai \u0111\u1ebfn. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129: m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng b\u1ed9 \u00f3c v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u m\u1edbi nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u00e0m, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. C\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn \u0111\u00f3 \u2014 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i s\u1ef1 t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u00e0 \u0111am m\u00ea \u2014 lu\u00f4n d\u1eabn d\u1eaft t\u00f4i \u0111i \u0111\u00fang h\u01b0\u1edbng. N\u00f3 lu\u00f4n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c ch\u01a1i.              \n Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u00f4 ph\u1ecfng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. M\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng thu\u1ed9c t\u00ednh nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp s\u1eb5n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi sinh ra, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tinh ch\u1ec9nh ch\u00fang th\u00f4ng qua r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i nh\u1eadp vai: th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng t\u1ed1i \u0111a m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 thu\u1ed9c t\u00ednh n\u00e0y m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng thu\u1ed9c t\u00ednh kh\u00e1c t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp s\u1eb5n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Vi\u1ec7c theo \u0111u\u1ed5i s\u1ef1 t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u00e0 s\u1edf th\u00edch lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 kim ch\u1ec9 nam cho t\u00f4i.   \n D\u00f9 v\u1eady, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft nh\u01b0ng khi nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i. T\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p n\u0103m 21 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0o n\u0103m 96, trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a bong b\u00f3ng dot-com, t\u00f4i s\u1ee3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng coi tr\u1ecdng m\u00ecnh \u2014 t\u00f4i v\u1ed1n nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 trang tr\u1ea3i ti\u1ec1n h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty &#8220;th\u1ef1c th\u1ee5&#8221;; t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean n\u00e0o. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 n\u1ebfu m\u00ecnh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty th\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, c\u00f2n n\u1ebfu gia nh\u1eadp m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty th\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi tr\u1ecdng. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn McKinsey trong v\u00e0i n\u0103m, nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ki\u1ec3u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n \u2014 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1eddng kinh doanh, ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd tr\u1ea3 l\u01b0\u01a1ng cho b\u1ea1n. Nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m v\u1eady. T\u00f4i n\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eb3ng Thung l\u0169ng Silicon v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ho\u1eb7c gia nh\u1eadp m\u1ed9t startup, ngay c\u1ea3 khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, v\u00ec th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i t\u1ef1 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc. V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng l\u00fac t\u00f4i h\u01a1i \u0111i ch\u1ec7ch h\u01b0\u1edbng \u2014 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 xa.       \n Sai l\u1ea7m ti\u1ec1m t\u00e0ng ti\u1ebfp theo: T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t startup, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o xu\u1ea5t ch\u00fang. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129, t\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb M\u1ef9 v\u00e0 mang v\u1ec1 ch\u00e2u \u00c2u? V\u00e0o n\u0103m 98, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm. S\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ebfn Thung l\u0169ng Silicon v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ho\u1eb7c gia nh\u1eadp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m r\u1ea5t th\u00fa v\u1ecb. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 huy \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 63 tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la v\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n n\u00f3 t\u1eeb con s\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng l\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn 100 tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la doanh thu v\u00e0 thu\u00ea 150 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eafc r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, t\u00f4i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c qu\u00e1 s\u1ee9c \u2014 t\u00f4i b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp cho s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu kinh nghi\u1ec7m b\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1 gi\u1edd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c thu\u1ea7n t\u00fay. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m gi\u1edd m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n, b\u1ea3y ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n, \u0111i ng\u1ee7 l\u00fac m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 th\u1ee9c d\u1eady l\u00fac n\u0103m gi\u1edd s\u00e1ng, m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.        \n Nh\u01b0ng ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 v\u1eabn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c ch\u01a1i. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c; t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t vui. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa hai ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c nh\u01b0 nhau. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang g\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u2014 v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9, v\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u1edbi gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean, hay b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 n\u1ed7i m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m n\u00e0o h\u1ecd mang tr\u00ean vai. \u0110\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t l\u00fac n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u0169ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m gi\u1edd t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1, nh\u01b0ng y\u00eau th\u00edch t\u1eebng ph\u00fat gi\u00e2y v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c ch\u01a1i. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c m\u00e3i m\u00e3i. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 lu\u00f4n gi\u00e0nh chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng.        \n Jodie Cook: C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i n\u1eefa. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c ch\u01a1i tr\u00f4ng s\u1ebd kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n. \n Fabrice Grinda: M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i n\u00f3. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i \u2014 t\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i cho \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m 27 tu\u1ed5i. T\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ec7nh hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean, l\u00e0 th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Con g\u00e1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 xao nh\u00e3ng. Vui \u0111\u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 xao nh\u00e3ng. T\u00f4i c\u1ea7n t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i cho l\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng.      \n T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, khi bong b\u00f3ng v\u1ee1 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i m\u1ea5t t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ cao v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. Khi c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb, b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ef1 ti v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi. T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t anh ch\u00e0ng c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng minh, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 t\u1ef1 ti v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u2014 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e1 hay \u0111i bar, t\u00f4i th\u00edch \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0o. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u1edf \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc.    \n \u0110i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb l\u00e0 khi c\u00f4ng ty \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, t\u00f4i t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00f9ng \u2014 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean trang b\u00eca c\u00e1c t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed, Forbes phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n Ph\u00e1p, tin t\u1ee9c l\u00fac t\u00e1m gi\u1edd t\u1ed1i \u2014 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb tr\u1eafng tay. V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc suy ng\u1eabm. T\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eedi cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t email r\u1ea5t d\u00e0i: m\u00ecnh n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec b\u00e2y gi\u1edd? T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf \u0111\u00fang n\u01a1i, \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i duy nh\u1ea5t, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng n\u1eafm b\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 suy ngh\u0129 r\u1ea5t l\u00e2u: m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 n\u00ean quay l\u1ea1i McKinsey kh\u00f4ng? Hay \u0111i h\u1ecdc tr\u01b0\u1eddng kinh doanh \u2014 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y h\u01a1i n\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00ec c\u00f4ng ty c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. Hay l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 t\u01b0 nh\u00e2n? V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i t\u00f4i ngh\u0129: ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec trong s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y v\u00ec ti\u1ec1n. T\u00f4i th\u00edch x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb con s\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng. T\u00f4i th\u00edch t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 r\u1ebb h\u01a1n v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 nh\u1ecf b\u00e9, ng\u00e1ch h\u1eb9p v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n trong \u0111\u00f3 \u2014 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u0103m 2001: bong b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ee1, v\u1ed1n m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft, c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd chia s\u1ebb email m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eedi cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3.              \n Jodie Cook: T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1n xem n\u00f3. V\u1eady l\u00e0 v\u00ec bong b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ee1, \u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129: kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n trong vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn s\u1ebd d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n v\u00e0o v\u00ec m\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00f3. \n Fabrice Grinda: \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean: khi b\u1ea1n vi\u1ebft cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng email n\u00e0y, h\u00e3y suy ngh\u0129 th\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e1o v\u00e0 c\u00f3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0a ra k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn ngay trong khi \u0111ang vi\u1ebft. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u00e0i t\u1eadp email \u0111\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n. \u0110\u1ec3 t\u00f4i g\u1eedi cho b\u1ea1n c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean.   \n Jodie Cook: M\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u1edf McKinsey sau khi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p \u2014 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m v\u00ec \u00f4ng \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 \u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh &#8220;n\u00ean&#8221; l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng?\n Fabrice Grinda: Kh\u00f4ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u bu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u00edch n\u00f3. L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, t\u00f4i th\u00edch nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. McKinsey l\u00fac b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd l\u00e0 n\u01a1i t\u1eadp trung nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh nh\u1ea5t, v\u00ec v\u1eady t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng v\u0103n b\u1ea3n, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 \u1edf m\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y th\u00fa v\u1ecb. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t hai n\u0103m c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 bong b\u00f3ng c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 m\u00e0 l\u1ebd ra t\u00f4i n\u00ean l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n trong \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngay trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh. L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u00f4i thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc 500 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ebfn ph\u00e1t khi\u1ebfp. \u0110\u1ebfn l\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 n\u0103m m\u01b0\u01a1i th\u00ec d\u1ec5 \u1ee3t. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t t\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u1ed1ng k\u00ednh v\u1edbi h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang xem \u2014 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m t\u00f4i nao n\u00fang. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n r\u1ed3i.         \n \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c nh\u1ea5t. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t ngay t\u1eeb s\u1edbm: h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ti ti\u1ec1m \u1ea9n, m\u1ed9t con qu\u1ef7 nh\u1ecf lu\u00f4n n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 gi\u1ecfi, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9. T\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i \u2014 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec b\u1ea1n quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ni\u1ec1m tin \u0111\u00f3 lu\u00f4n hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu.    \n V\u00ec v\u1eady, McKinsey kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0o l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3. McKinsey, gia nh\u1eadp m\u1ed9t startup, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t startup \u2014 c\u1ea3 ba h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. \u0110\u1ebfn th\u1eb3ng Thung l\u0169ng Silicon c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat so v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ebfn McKinsey r\u1ed3i v\u1ec1 Ph\u00e1p, nh\u01b0ng sao c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0, t\u00f4i su\u00fdt n\u1eefa \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng ty c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi gi\u00e1 300 tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la v\u00e0 l\u1ebd ra \u0111\u00e3 ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 120 tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t t\u1eebng x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi t\u00f4i \u2014 b\u1edfi v\u00ec l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o, \u00e1i k\u1ef7, \u00edch k\u1ef7, hay coi th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n th\u1eadt d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng n\u00f3. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng khai nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u2014 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u00f4i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u2014 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc h\u1eefu \u00edch \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn.        \n N\u00f3 c\u0169ng d\u1ea1y t\u00f4i ng\u1eebng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t. Th\u1ef1c ra, \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ea1y t\u00f4i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u00e9p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2. T\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra kh\u00e1c nhau, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb duy nh\u1ea5t. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 IQ v\u00e0 tham v\u1ecdng \u2014 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u00fa v\u1ecb. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh hay v\u1edbi h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra: t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra kh\u00e1c nhau, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t c\u1ea3. V\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ti, v\u00ec t\u00f4i qu\u00e1 gi\u1ecfi trong vi\u1ec7c th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 tham v\u1ecdng nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 t\u1ec7 trong vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n, hay c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng s\u1edf th\u00edch ri\u00eang. M\u1ed9t khi t\u00f4i r\u0169 b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 ti v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd, c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u2014 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u2014 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t. T\u1eeb m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o, coi th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb ri\u00eang. Nh\u01b0ng qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb n\u0103m 25 ho\u1eb7c 26 tu\u1ed5i, sau th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng khai \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c cho \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u tu\u1ed5i ba m\u01b0\u01a1i, khi t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ.          \n Jodie Cook: H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng xem. N\u1ebfu ph\u1ea3i x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c m\u1ed9t n\u0103m m\u00e0 phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n Fabrice 2.0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra, th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o? \n Fabrice Grinda: \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n. \u0110\u1ebfn McKinsey n\u0103m 21 tu\u1ed5i, v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1996, v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh, th\u00fa v\u1ecb kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i kia \u2014 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u00ecm h\u1ecd \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. Sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u startup c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o n\u0103m 1999\u20132000 v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra: t\u00f4i t\u1eebng ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t l\u01b0u lo\u00e1t v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111am m\u00ea th\u1ef1c ra l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. S\u1ef1 h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i m\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 do t\u00f4i \u1edf trong nh\u1eefng m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f9ng ch\u00ed h\u01b0\u1edbng, n\u01a1i t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ni\u1ec1m \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y \u0111\u01b0a t\u00f4i l\u00ean s\u00e2n kh\u1ea5u v\u00e0 \u2014 \u00f4i tr\u1eddi \u01a1i, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eadt t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. V\u00ec v\u1eady, khi startup th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2001, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129: m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 tin, h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i, t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 v\u00e0 trong kinh doanh, v\u1eady m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 h\u1ec7 qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u1edf trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd h\u1eb9n h\u00f2. T\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i nh\u1ec9?        \n R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd m\u1edf l\u1eddi m\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111i ch\u01a1i trong \u0111\u1eddi, th\u00ec kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3. V\u00ec v\u1eady, trong m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m ng\u00e0y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u00e9p m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i m\u1eddi c\u00e1c c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111i ch\u01a1i tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ed1 New York \u2014 m\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4 g\u00e1i m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, trong m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m ng\u00e0y, t\u1ed5ng c\u1ed9ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u00ecn c\u00f4 g\u00e1i. M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n; m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i. L\u1ee3i th\u1ebf l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng h\u1ecfi xin ti\u1ec1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m v\u00e0 b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i, n\u00ean theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd quen v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb kh\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eeb.   \n Jodie Cook: Chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 di\u1ec5n ra th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 l\u1eafm. \n Fabrice Grinda: L\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf ch\u1ea1y theo h\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, v\u00ec n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 c\u1ee5c \u2014 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang m\u1eddi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 xinh \u0111\u1eb9p ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i ch\u01a1i. Nh\u01b0ng nh\u1edd quy lu\u1eadt s\u1ed1 l\u1edbn, m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n di\u1ec5n ra kh\u00e1 t\u1ed1t. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 45 cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n, trung b\u00ecnh c\u1ee9 c\u00e1ch m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0, t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd \u0111i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 trong \u0111\u1eddi, v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n v\u1edbi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c nhau. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n \u2014 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi tranh lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 Locke v\u1edbi Hobbes, Rousseau v\u1edbi Voltaire. H\u00f3a ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 xinh \u0111\u1eb9p ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u1ed1 New York l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eabu ki\u00eam di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean \u2014 th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean pha ch\u1ebf v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eabu \u0111\u1ea7y tham v\u1ecdng \u2014 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eddi trang v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tin t\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3i tr\u00ed m\u1edbi nh\u1ea5t, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i, v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng tr\u00f9ng kh\u1edbp. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n, n\u00ean t\u00f4i nhanh ch\u00f3ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u00f3 n\u00ean l\u00e0 \u0111i u\u1ed1ng n\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i \u0103n t\u1ed1i. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1edbm nh\u1eadn ra chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00f3 quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c trong bu\u1ed5i h\u1eb9n th\u1ee9 hai c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ee7 t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u2014 t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fat k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 n\u00e0o s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 v\u1eabn h\u1eefu \u00edch, v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i. Sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111i t\u00ecm nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p thay v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 xinh \u0111\u1eb9p ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean, v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n.           \n Ti\u1ebfp theo l\u00e0 startup k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp. Th\u1eadt th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u2014 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i g\u1ed3ng m\u00ecnh v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u00f3. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m m\u00ecnh \u0111ang x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng, nh\u1eefng s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m m\u00ecnh \u0111ang b\u00e1n, l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh \u0111ang tham gia, hay nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 c\u1ea3.   \n Jodie Cook: Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ee3i nhu\u1eadn ch\u1ee9?\n Fabrice Grinda: T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e1n nh\u1ea1c chu\u00f4ng. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 mang nh\u1ea1c chu\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn M\u1ef9. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: trong m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n, h\u00e3y c\u1ee9 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n, theo \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2001, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u2014 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngu\u1ed3n v\u1ed1n n\u00e0o s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3. \u0110am m\u00ea c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7, t\u1ea1i M\u1ef9, l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u1edf New York, v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111ang y\u00eau say \u0111\u1eafm m\u1ed9t c\u00f4 g\u00e1i (chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh). V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n \u1edf New York, \u1edf M\u1ef9, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n t\u1eeb c\u00e1c qu\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m; c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft; n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t doanh nghi\u1ec7p nh\u1ecf, ng\u00e1ch. V\u00ec v\u1eady, thay v\u00ec x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ki\u1ec3u c\u00f4ng ty m\u00e0 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra l\u1ee3i nhu\u1eadn v\u1edbi ngu\u1ed3n v\u1ed1n r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng doanh nghi\u1ec7p nh\u1ea1c chu\u00f4ng \u2014 m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nghe nh\u1ea1c, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng ty \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c l\u00e0 l\u0169 ng\u1ed1c. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 v\u1eady th\u1eadt. H\u1ecd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n cho h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la. C\u00e1c c\u00f4ng ty \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y.           \n V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nh\u1eefng s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m m\u00ecnh \u0111ang b\u00e1n, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 vi\u1ec7c cung c\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 s\u00e0nh \u0111i\u1ec7u cho thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00edch quy tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y \u2014 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00f4ng ty, thu\u00ea \u0111\u1ed9i ng\u0169, m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng quy m\u00f4, th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ee5 \u2014 m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng trong \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n t\u1eeb qu\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m, v\u00ec v\u1eady t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00f4ng ty \u0111\u00f3 theo c\u00e1ch truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng: d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean l\u1ee3i nhu\u1eadn. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 su\u00fdt ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ee3 l\u01b0\u01a1ng 27 l\u1ea7n, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 b\u1ed1n th\u00e1ng li\u00ean ti\u1ebfp. Ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t hai n\u0103m r\u01b0\u1ee1i m\u1edbi ch\u1ed1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi nh\u00e0 m\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ed1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t th\u00edch ch\u00fang t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 doanh thu \u0111\u00e3 t\u0103ng t\u1eeb 1 tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la l\u00ean 5 tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebfn 200 tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la, c\u00f3 l\u00e3i. Sau \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i b\u00e1n n\u00f3 \u2014 h\u01a1i s\u1edbm, nh\u01b0ng s\u1edbm c\u00f2n h\u01a1n mu\u1ed9n, v\u00e0 b\u00e1n l\u1ea5y ti\u1ec1n m\u1eb7t, v\u00ec c\u1ed5 phi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ty tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3m 99,98%. \u1ede tu\u1ed5i 29, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kho\u1ea3ng 43 tri\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f4 la. Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u00e3 mang l\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3, v\u00e0 gi\u1edd t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 v\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n.          \n \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac t\u00f4i quay l\u1ea1i x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c s\u00e0n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra OLX. OLX gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 Craigslist cho ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, nh\u01b0ng \u01b0u ti\u00ean di \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u2014 v\u00ec ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u00ednh trong m\u1ecdi gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng \u1edf ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 n\u00e0o, thu\u00ea ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00f4ng tr\u1ebb n\u00e0o, mua chi\u1ebfc xe v\u00e0 b\u1ed9 gh\u1ebf sofa n\u00e0o. Craigslist l\u00e0 trang web \u00edt th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111\u1ea7y r\u1eaby l\u1eeba \u0111\u1ea3o, m\u1ea1i d\u00e2m v\u00e0 r\u00e1c r\u01b0\u1edfi. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129: \u1edf c\u00e1c th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1edbi n\u1ed5i nh\u01b0 \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9, Pakistan v\u00e0 Brazil, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng thanh to\u00e1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1eadn chuy\u1ec3n. Li\u1ec7u t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t trang web tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n trong c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng? Ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u2014 l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 b\u1edfi v\u1ed1n m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m, x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n n\u00f3 l\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn 350 tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng m\u1ed7i th\u00e1ng. Kho\u1ea3ng 5% d\u00e2n s\u1ed1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 h\u00e0ng th\u00e1ng; h\u00e0ng ch\u1ee5c tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ki\u1ebfm s\u1ed1ng t\u1eeb n\u00f3. \u1ede nh\u1eefng qu\u1ed1c gia \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn l\u00e1 th\u01b0 t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng k\u1ec3 cho ch\u00fang t\u00f4i nghe v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra. V\u00ec v\u1eady, tham v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.           \n Jodie Cook: N\u0103m 5 tu\u1ed5i, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 tham v\u1ecdng t\u1ea1o ra hi\u1ec7u \u1ee9ng g\u1ee3n s\u00f3ng. V\u1edbi OLX \u2014 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng tin nh\u1eafn \u0111\u00f3 \u2014 l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 \u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u00f4ng sinh ra \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng? \n Fabrice Grinda: \u1ed2, c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3. T\u00f4i h\u1ecdc kinh t\u1ebf v\u00ec n\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00e1ch th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i y\u00eau c\u00e1c th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00ec ch\u00fang mang l\u1ea1i hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 cho nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 v\u1ed1n m\u1edd m\u1ecbt v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n m\u1ea3nh. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 r\u1ebb h\u01a1n, ch\u00fang l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n s\u1ee9c mua c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c s\u00e0n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ea1i. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a internet l\u00e0 r\u1ebb h\u01a1n, t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, nhanh h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n mang \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn cho h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m tri\u1ec7u \u2014 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i l\u00e0 h\u00e0ng t\u1ef7 \u2014 ng\u01b0\u1eddi. T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft OLX l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng ty m\u00e0 t\u00f4i sinh ra \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng. Ph\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i y\u00eau n\u00f3. Gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t, s\u1ee9 m\u1ec7nh \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t.        \n Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1eddi thay, m\u1ed9t khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 l\u1ea1i x\u1ea3y ra \u2014 t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi s\u1ee9 m\u1ec7nh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa. H\u00e3y h\u00ecnh dung n\u0103m 2012: T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eafng tr\u1eadn. M\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty kh\u1ed5ng l\u1ed3, 11.000 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean, 30 qu\u1ed1c gia, th\u01b0 t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, m\u1ed9t trang web h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u \u1edf m\u1ed7i qu\u1ed1c gia \u0111\u00f3 \u2014 s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn to l\u1edbn t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u1eefa, v\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Trong nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u, t\u00f4i tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp vi\u1ebft c\u00e1c c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng s\u1ed1 k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m, c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. M\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 11.000 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean v\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty ni\u00eam y\u1ebft c\u00f4ng khai, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng ng\u00e2n s\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng qu\u00fd v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c con s\u1ed1. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 quay l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n. \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra n\u1ebfu \u2014 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u1edfng \u2014 t\u00f4i r\u1eddi b\u1ecf c\u00f4ng ty m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp, n\u01a1i t\u00f4i \u0111ang nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 th\u00f9 lao v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn, b\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m n\u1eefa? V\u00e0 t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac, v\u00ec t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y n\u1eefa. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t email d\u00e0i kh\u00e1c, v\u1ea1ch ra t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111i\u00ean r\u1ed3 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m thay th\u1ebf. T\u00f4i vi\u1ebft n\u00f3 v\u00e0o m\u00f9a h\u00e8 n\u0103m 2012, khi t\u00f4i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 CEO c\u1ee7a OLX.            \n Jodie Cook: Khi \u00f4ng vi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng d\u00f2ng n\u00e0y, c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u00f4ng \u0111ang vi\u1ebft cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u1edf hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng?\n Fabrice Grinda: \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady, g\u1eedi cho ch\u00ednh t\u00f4i \u1edf hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. T\u00f4i tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y r\u00f5 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, t\u00f4i h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u00e1c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn l\u00e0 g\u00ec, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn \u2014 tranh c\u1eed \u1edf Cuba, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc gi\u1ea3 c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. Sau \u0111\u00f3, thay v\u00ec t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng cho m\u1ed7i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u2014 c\u00e1i ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tung h\u00f4 \u2014 t\u00f4i t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. N\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tr\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, \u01b0u v\u00e0 nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u00e0 g\u00ec? T\u00f4i s\u1ebd th\u00edch g\u00ec? T\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch g\u00ec? Sau \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i g\u1eedi email cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 t\u00f4i \u2014 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n \u2014 v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi hai c\u00e2u: v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u00f4i, b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 t\u00f4i n\u00ean l\u00e0m g\u00ec? V\u00e0, n\u1ebfu l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec? \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn kh\u00e1c nhau. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd l\u00e0 CEO c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u1edbi m\u1ee9c l\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u1edf l\u1ea1i. K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0: tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng. B\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb con s\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng.            \n Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 quay l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t (first principles). T\u00f4i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch vi\u1ec7c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u2014 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u0103n h\u1ed9, n\u00ean b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3; m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1, n\u00ean b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng \u1edf \u0111\u00f3; m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m b\u1ea1n, n\u00ean b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p h\u1ecd. Chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i \u0111em t\u1eb7ng h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 cho t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb h\u01b0 v\u00f4? Nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u h\u00f4m nay? T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec? T\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n g\u1eb7p ai?      \n \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u00e0i t\u1eadp m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua sau khi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eddi OLX. T\u00f4i quay v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m d\u1ea7n \u2014 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi s\u1ebd l\u00e0 g\u00ec. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eed ng\u1ee7 nh\u1edd tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf sofa nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ea3m h\u1ecda to\u00e0n t\u1eadp. T\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e1i thi\u1ebft th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 h\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, ch\u01a1i tennis. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c th\u00e2n v\u1edbi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n, c\u00f2n h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 con. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ed9ng th\u00eam; t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 phi\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec5u. V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3.      \n Jodie Cook: V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ee7 tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf sofa n\u1eefa ch\u1ee9.\n Fabrice Grinda: Ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eed nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9. T\u00f4i \u1edf Airbnb trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m. T\u00f4i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c kh\u00e1ch s\u1ea1n. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eed \u1edf m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i trong m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n r\u1ed3i chuy\u1ec3n \u0111i m\u1ed7i tu\u1ea7n, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi. T\u00f4i th\u1eed hai th\u00e1ng, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u. T\u00f4i c\u1ee9 th\u1eed \u0111i th\u1eed l\u1ea1i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ee7 nhi\u1ec1u. C\u00f3 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng: b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m, v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u. Trong b\u1ea3y n\u0103m, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t khu t\u1ed5 h\u1ee3p l\u1edbn \u1edf C\u1ed9ng h\u00f2a Dominica, v\u00e0 trong su\u1ed1t b\u1ea3y n\u0103m \u0111\u00f3, v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng. T\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i blog v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 &#8220;\u0111\u00e1 v\u00e0o m\u1ed3m&#8221; \u2014 th\u1ef1c ra n\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00ean l\u00e0 \u201cV\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111ang th\u00ec th\u1ea7m v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.\u201d Trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u0111\u00f3.           \n Jodie Cook: V\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi x\u1ea3y ra g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y sao?\n Fabrice Grinda: \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady, g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y th\u00f4i. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao m\u00ecnh ch\u1ecdn C\u1ed9ng h\u00f2a Dominica v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i ch\u1ec7ch h\u01b0\u1edbng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, h\u1ebft l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb khi t\u00f4i nghi\u00eam t\u00fac b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00e2m linh, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra kh\u00e1 ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean \u2014 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ba h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh s\u00e2u s\u1eafc: m\u1ed9t v\u1edbi ayahuasca, m\u1ed9t v\u1edbi psilocybin, v\u00e0 v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n v\u1edbi LSD. K\u1ec3 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, khi t\u00f4i c\u00f2n ph\u1edbt l\u1edd ch\u00fang.    \n T\u00f4i lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i. T\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i blog d\u00e0i v\u1ec1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u2014 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng: \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c nh\u1ea5t. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ecd ngh\u0129 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng trong khi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i, m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c d\u1ea1o ch\u01a1i. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo \u0111u\u1ed5i t\u00e2m linh th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ec1n: \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 thu\u1eadn theo d\u00f2ng ch\u1ea3y r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf sofa ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 x\u1ea3y ra. Thu\u1eadn theo d\u00f2ng ch\u1ea3y c\u1ee7a con s\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u1ea3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, sau \u0111\u00f3 quan s\u00e1t ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ec3 xem li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111ang \u0111i \u0111\u00fang h\u01b0\u1edbng hay kh\u00f4ng. B\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng. Nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb tu s\u0129 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n thi\u1ec1n c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y, theo t\u00f4i, \u0111ang b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 m\u00f4 ph\u1ecfng n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 si\u00eau tho\u00e1t hay t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi. Thi\u1ec1n t\u00f4ng s\u1ebd g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u00e1m ch\u1ea5p v\u00e0o h\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng; Watts s\u1ebd n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea5u ch\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f9a. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i, b\u1ea1n quay l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng \u2014 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft h\u01a1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e2u. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i. Tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c khi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ngay c\u1ea3 khi ch\u00fang ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u2014 r\u1eddi b\u1ecf m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty khi \u0111ang \u1edf \u0111\u1ec9nh cao, t\u1eb7ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n cho t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n, kh\u1edfi nghi\u1ec7p c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2001 khi ng\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 b\u1ecb coi l\u00e0 \u201c\u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft\u201d v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o t\u00f4i n\u00ean \u0111i h\u1ecdc kinh doanh ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m qu\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 t\u01b0 nh\u00e2n.               \n H\u00e3y l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u. T\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng \u2014 ph\u00e2n b\u1ed5 \u1edf ba n\u01a1i r\u01b0\u1ee1i, v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 kh\u00f4ng theo quy chu\u1ea9n \u2014 nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c v\u00ec b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh \u201cn\u00ean\u201d l\u00e0m. H\u00e3y l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u.   \n \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho c\u00e1c startup. B\u1ea1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng, b\u1ea1n th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m \u2014 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u1eed r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9, tung m\u1ecdi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00ean \u2014 v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u. Trong m\u1ed9t startup, \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ch\u1eadm; b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nhanh. H\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, h\u00e3y b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp. N\u1ebfu c\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n c\u00e1ch m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau 10 l\u1ea7n, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e2u. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1ch 50%, th\u00ec v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ef1 th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. S\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u2014 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh, n\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec \u2014 nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u. B\u1ea1n n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u1ebft m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u xem li\u1ec7u n\u00f3 c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 hay kh\u00f4ng d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean d\u1eef li\u1ec7u v\u00e0 c\u00e1c t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.       \n Jodie Cook: T\u00f4i t\u1eebng nghe c\u00e2u n\u00f3i, \u201cv\u0169 tr\u1ee5 ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e1m m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m l\u1edbn.\u201d T\u00f4i \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 vi\u1ec7c th\u1eed nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eefng canh b\u1ea1c l\u1edbn v\u1eady. \n Fabrice Grinda: X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t startup nh\u1ecf c\u0169ng t\u1ed1n c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t startup l\u1edbn v\u1eady. M\u1edf m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng c\u0169ng t\u1ed1n c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty t\u1ef7 \u0111\u00f4. V\u1eady n\u00ean b\u1ea1n th\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1i l\u1edbn c\u00f2n h\u01a1n. Ch\u01a1i l\u1edbn ho\u1eb7c \u0111i v\u1ec1. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n \u2014 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t n\u00e0o \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y c\u1ea3. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 h\u00e0ng; c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1edbi c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 th\u00edch tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng. H\u00e3y t\u1ed1i \u01b0u h\u00f3a cho nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.      \n V\u00e0 th\u1ef1c ra t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m l\u1edbn nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m nh\u1ecf. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 n\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi h\u1ecd \u2014 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, \u0111am m\u00ea, t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. V\u0169 tr\u1ee5 ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng cho s\u1ef1 d\u1ea1o ch\u01a1i v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui. H\u00e3y vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 ham ch\u01a1i trong m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ef1 d\u1ea1o ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1n \u0111\u00e1p v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u00e9p m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec n\u00f3 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng.     \n Jodie Cook: B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 lu\u00f4n \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u1ecdc c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u, ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i, theo \u0111u\u1ed5i ni\u1ec1m vui \u2014 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho ai kh\u00f4ng? \n Fabrice Grinda: C\u00f3 ch\u1ee9. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u r\u1ee7i ro th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i. Startup \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n \u2014 th\u00ec sao ch\u1ee9? T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1i McKinsey ho\u1eb7c Goldman trong t\u00edch t\u1eafc. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n; t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu\u00ea t\u00f4i; t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ee7 nh\u1edd tr\u00ean gh\u1ebf sofa nh\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 r\u1ee7i ro th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. M\u1eb7t tr\u00e1i l\u00e0 g\u00ec \u2014 t\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 trong v\u00e0i n\u0103m \u01b0? \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y t\u1eadn th\u1ebf. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ed5i ph\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 r\u1ee7i ro m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang g\u00e1nh ch\u1ecbu. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n \u2014 th\u00ec sao? Kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u1ee7 c\u00e1i \u0103n, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0103n \u1edf n\u01a1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 sang tr\u1ecdng, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa buffet \u0103n th\u1ecfa th\u00edch gi\u00e1 n\u0103m \u0111\u00f4 v\u1eabn t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u00e0. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 qu\u00e1 cao m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 r\u1ee7i ro th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 r\u1ee7i ro n\u00e0o c\u1ea3.             \n Th\u1ee9 hai, \u0111\u00fang v\u1eady, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u00e2y quanh m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. T\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u00e2y quanh m\u00ecnh b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u01b0 duy t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1. T\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi h\u1ecd c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra \u2014 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thi\u00ean ki\u1ebfn x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn cho ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111ang ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i h\u1ecd. T\u00f4i tin r\u1eb1ng v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111ang \u01b0u \u00e1i t\u00f4i, n\u00ean n\u00f3 l\u00e0m v\u1eady. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i v\u00e2y quanh m\u00ecnh b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi vui v\u1ebb, l\u1ea1c quan, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng tin nh\u01b0 v\u1eady: r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i, b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng ni\u1ec1m vui, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1 nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng h\u00f3a m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n.    \n Jodie Cook: Khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 11.000 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eadn ra m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u2014 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3 th\u00e0nh k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ti\u1ebfp theo? Email b\u1ea1n vi\u1ebft cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o? \n Fabrice Grinda: \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u00f4i h\u00e0nh thi\u1ec1n v\u00e0 th\u1ee9c t\u1ec9nh t\u00e2m linh \u2014 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y 30 th\u00e1ng 5 n\u0103m 2015. Khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u00ecnh \u0111ang ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, b\u1ea1n suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 v\u00e0 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ecfng l\u1ebbo v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac. \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i y\u00eau th\u00edch \u1edf vi\u1ec7c vi\u1ebft l\u00e1ch l\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac h\u00f3a suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7t b\u00fat xu\u1ed1ng, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i \u2014 nh\u1eefng \u01b0u v\u00e0 nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nghi\u1ec1n ng\u1eabm v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 trong nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1ng, v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c vi\u1ebft l\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m r\u00f5 cho qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3. D\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft ra \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac h\u00f3a t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u1eb7t ch\u1ebd h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u01a1 s\u1edf cho k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i n\u00ean r\u1eddi \u0111i.     \n Jodie Cook: Th\u1eadt th\u00fa v\u1ecb khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ENTJ. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ENTJ; ch\u1ed3ng t\u00f4i l\u00e0 INTJ. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi NTJ \u2014 t\u00f4i su\u00fdt n\u1eefa \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t podcast t\u00ean l\u00e0 \u201cNTJ Radio.\u201d V\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 gi\u1ecfi nh\u1ea5t.   \n Fabrice Grinda: M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i \u1edf ranh gi\u1edbi \u2014 t\u00f4i th\u00edch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f4ng ch\u00fang, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u0169ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch. Nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n phi\u1ebfm (small talk) l\u00e0m t\u00f4i c\u1ea1n ki\u1ec7t n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng; t\u00f4i gh\u00e9t n\u00f3. T\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi \u0111i Burning Man v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n g\u00e1i v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng n\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch t\u00e1n g\u1eabu v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1.  \n Jodie Cook: Ch\u1eef N r\u1ea5t h\u1ee3p l\u00fd \u2014 tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c, t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn, \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u1edbi t\u00e2m linh. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eef T v\u00e0 J c\u00f3 v\u1ebb m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a logic v\u00e0o m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 gi\u1eb1ng co \u0111\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u00e0y 30 th\u00e1ng 5 n\u0103m 2015 kh\u00f4ng?  \n Fabrice Grinda: \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i b\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m tra, n\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i.\n Jodie Cook: \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady.\n Fabrice Grinda: B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thi\u00ean v\u1ec1 ch\u1eef F (c\u1ea3m x\u00fac) nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ea5y.\n Jodie Cook: C\u00f3 l\u1ebd v\u1eady \u2014 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t th\u00fa v\u1ecb. Ki\u1ec3u ENTJ l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 huy: ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, b\u00e1m l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. V\u1eady l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u00e0 \u2014  \n Fabrice Grinda: T\u00f4i nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 theo c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u00e1m ch\u1ea5p v\u00e0o k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 quan s\u00e1t n\u00f3 di\u1ec5n ra nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, r\u1ed3i \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh cho ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. T\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cu\u1ed3ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, ngay c\u1ea3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y.   \n Jodie Cook: V\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u201cb\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c\u201d \u2014 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng \u201ckh\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e2u, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.\u201d B\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1i t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng cho r\u1eb1ng ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c cha m\u1eb9 b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m. Ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u?   \n Fabrice Grinda: T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u2014 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd n\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c quan s\u00e1t cha m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c, m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m. \n Jodie Cook: B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng?\n Fabrice Grinda: \u1ed2, c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9. Khi t\u00f4i 10 tu\u1ed5i, t\u00f4i c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 kh\u00f3 \u01b0a. T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ea3o b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 tr\u00ean b\u00e0n \u0103n r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd n\u00ean bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00ec c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o, kh\u00f3 \u01b0a \u2014 ki\u1ec3u Sheldon Cooper. T\u00f4i b\u1ea3o h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u, nh\u01b0ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb h\u1ecd. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, tr\u1edb tr\u00eau thay, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ngoan nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3: nh\u1ea3y l\u1edbp, to\u00e0n \u0111i\u1ec3m A+, ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd g\u00e2y r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111i ch\u01a1i khuya. Theo \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a \u0111en l\u00e0 gi\u1ecfi nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi m\u1eb7t \u2014 nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng v\u00e0 hay ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t, kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m cho l\u1eafm.      \n Jodie Cook: V\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng?\n Fabrice Grinda: \u1ed2, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1ed3i. M\u1eb9 t\u00f4i hay tr\u00eau t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00fang v\u1eady, h\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c.   \n Jodie Cook: Angel d\u1ea1o n\u00e0y th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?\n Fabrice Grinda: C\u00f4 \u1ea5y b\u1ecb nhi\u1ec5m tr\u00f9ng m\u1eaft, n\u00ean c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111eo loa che c\u1ed5 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i nh\u1ecf thu\u1ed1c v\u00e0o m\u1eaft c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u00e1ng v\u00e0 t\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u1eabn \u1ed5n. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, b\u1edfi v\u00ec \u2014 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4ng minh b\u1eb1ng, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng sao c\u1ea3. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng tham v\u1ecdng b\u1eb1ng, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng sao. H\u1ecd l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd, v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u01b0u v\u00e0 nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m ri\u00eang v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd y\u00eau th\u00edch. T\u00f4i t\u1eebng hay ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t; b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd. T\u00f4i t\u1eebng mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ho\u1eb7c ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t h\u1ecd theo m\u1ed9t khung gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u v\u00f4 gi\u00e1 \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecd. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u2014 c\u1ea3m \u01a1n b\u1ea1n v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho ph\u00e9p t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 t\u00f4i y\u00eau th\u00edch h\u00f4m nay n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 cho ph\u00e9p t\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1: s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch sai l\u1ea7m duy nh\u1ea5t n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u1ed5n. V\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh \u2014 nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00f3. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean, nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 t\u00f9y \u1edf b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd \u0111ang tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng g\u00ec. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t gi\u1eefa h\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd.                \n Jodie Cook: Th\u1eadt bu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi \u2014 t\u00f4i v\u1eeba m\u1edbi vi\u1ebft ch\u1eef \u201cl\u1eddi khuy\u00ean\u201d khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00f3. V\u1eady v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi xin l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n? \n Fabrice Grinda: T\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n t\u1ef1 nghe: n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m; n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i l\u00e0 t\u00f4i trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m; v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 quy tr\u00ecnh t\u00f4i s\u1ebd tu\u00e2n theo. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd vi\u1ec7c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh xem n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u hay kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo n\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 t\u00f9y \u1edf b\u1ea1n. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i v\u1eabn \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi \u2014 nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng b\u00e1m ch\u1ea5p v\u00e0o k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n hay kh\u00f4ng.   \n Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u00e1ch t\u00f4i l\u00e0m t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng, khi t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ee5 tho\u00e1i v\u1ed1n l\u1edbn, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 t\u1eb7ng ti\u1ec1n cho b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u2014 b\u1edfi v\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn t\u1ed1t cho nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u00f2ng kh\u00e1m da li\u1ec5u \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh chuy\u1ec3n sang nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u ung th\u01b0 v\u00e0 c\u1eaft gi\u1ea3m l\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111i n\u0103m l\u1ea7n. T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd v\u1eady \u2014 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi cho h\u1ecd. V\u00ec v\u1eady, th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng t\u00f4i s\u1ebd t\u1eb7ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady 100.000 ho\u1eb7c 200.000 \u0111\u00f4 la, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u00f4i l\u00e0m: n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh k\u1ef3, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u01b0\u1edbng s\u1ea1ch n\u00f3 \u1edf Vegas, \u0111i ngh\u1ec9 m\u00e1t, \u0111\u1eb7t c\u1ecdc mua nh\u00e0 \u2014 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng. H\u00e3y cho \u0111i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nguy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do, kh\u00f4ng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng. H\u00e3y l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn n\u00ean l\u00e0m, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n y\u00eau qu\u00fd h\u1ecd. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng \u1edf ph\u00eda b\u00ean kia. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c v\u00ec ch\u00fang l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn n\u00ean l\u00e0m.         \n Jodie Cook: C\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u00f4i n\u00ean h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng? \n Fabrice Grinda: \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u2014 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i blog g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y \u2014 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p gi\u1eefa h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng s\u1ee3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 (FOMO) v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c v\u00ec h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh n\u00ean l\u00e0m, v\u00ec h\u1ecd ngh\u0129 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00f3, ho\u1eb7c v\u00ec cha m\u1eb9 hay x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i mu\u1ed1n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. R\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, thay v\u00ec lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngh\u0129. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i \u2014 lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngh\u0129, trong khi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf ch\u1eb3ng ai th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd c\u1ea3, v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u201cn\u00ean\u201d thay v\u00ec v\u00ec h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n. \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c v\u00ec CV hay v\u00ec danh ti\u1ebfng. H\u00e3y l\u00e0m ch\u00fang v\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n. Khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m v\u1eady, theo quan s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra.      \n Jodie Cook: Tr\u01b0\u1edbc tu\u1ed5i 27, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n t\u1eebng h\u1eb9n h\u00f2, l\u00fac m\u1ea3i m\u00ea nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 k\u1ebb ng\u1ed1c \u2014 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 n\u00e0o, hay lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng? Hay b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3? \n Fabrice Grinda: T\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd quan t\u00e2m, b\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00f4i ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t h\u1ecd v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 th\u00f4ng minh. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t t\u00f4i v\u00ec v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u201czin\u201d \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 27, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t h\u1ecd v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng. V\u00ec v\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng \u2014 t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd quan t\u00e2m.  \n Jodie Cook: B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i \u201cl\u1eddi khuy\u00ean cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9\u201d ch\u01b0a?\n Fabrice Grinda: \u0110i\u1ec1u bu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0, khi t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng, c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u2014 b\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00f4i y\u00eau cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. Bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng khai \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 25 ho\u1eb7c 26, bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c c\u00f2n \u201czin\u201d cho \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m 27 tu\u1ed5i, bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o, tr\u1ecbch th\u01b0\u1ee3ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u201cs\u1eeda ch\u1eefa\u201d t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i lo r\u1eb1ng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ebd t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n. N\u00f3 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c \u0111i, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ecbch b\u1ea3n m\u00e0 n\u00f3 t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. T\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng.     \n Jodie Cook: Khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng khai \u2014 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho bi\u1ebft s\u01a1 qua v\u1ec1 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u00f4ng khai c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng?\n Fabrice Grinda: T\u00f4i xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean b\u1ea3n tin t\u00e1m gi\u1edd m\u1ed7i t\u1ed1i v\u00e0 tr\u00ean trang b\u00eca c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed. V\u00ec v\u1eady, khi c\u00f4ng ty ph\u00e1 s\u1ea3n \u2014 v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tranh c\u00e3i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3 \u2014 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y x\u00f4n xao d\u01b0 lu\u1eadn r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 k\u00fd m\u1ed9t th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 (NDA), n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra. H\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i b\u1ecb h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 m\u00ecnh.   \n Jodie Cook: B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec trong khi nh\u1eefng d\u00f2ng t\u00edt \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang ch\u1ea1y?\n Fabrice Grinda: Th\u1eadt bu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t quan t\u00e2m. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129: m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u0111i x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng startup ti\u1ebfp theo \u2014 ngay c\u1ea3 khi n\u00f3 nh\u1ecf v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1n. \n Jodie Cook: T\u00f4i t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi \u2014 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd k\u1ec3 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.\n Fabrice Grinda: T\u00f4i ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t th\u1ee9 l\u1edbn lao nh\u1ea5t \u2014 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf \u0111\u00fang n\u01a1i, \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 tu\u1ed9t kh\u1ecfi t\u1ea7m tay. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u00f4i t\u1eebng c\u00f3 m\u1ed7i khi y\u00eau v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh \u2014 k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y. Trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 tan n\u00e1t t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n, l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. Nh\u01b0ng th\u00fa v\u1ecb l\u00e0: b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, khi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra, t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn trong \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n. Trong bu\u1ed5i h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 th\u1ee9 hai v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef, sau khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y r\u1eddi \u0111i, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eedi cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y m\u1ed9t tin nh\u1eafn tho\u1ea1i n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, \u201c\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi, anh y\u00eau em\u201d \u2014 v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i ngh\u0129, c\u00e1i qu\u00e1i g\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u00e0y, m\u00ecnh v\u1eeba n\u00f3i y\u00eau c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ngay bu\u1ed5i h\u1eb9n th\u1ee9 hai. Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 t\u00f4i x\u00f3a n\u00f3 \u0111i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y trong n\u0103m th\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfp theo, v\u00ec t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh. V\u00e0 trong nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ch\u00fang t\u00f4i chia tay g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t an \u2014 m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd y\u00eau nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o nh\u1ea5t t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn nay. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 \u0111ang \u0111\u1ebfn. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 linh t\u00ednh v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y.          \n Th\u1eadt bu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi \u2014 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m nay t\u00f4i m\u1edbi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e2m linh n\u00e0y. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n, v\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1eb7t ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean y\u00eau ai. Nh\u01b0ng, tin hay kh\u00f4ng t\u00f9y b\u1ea1n, Dan Brown \u2014 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a M\u1eadt m\u00e3 Da Vinci \u2014 v\u1eeba ph\u00e1t h\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch m\u1edbi, The Secret of Secrets, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t nh\u1ecb (non-dual). N\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u; t\u00f4i \u0111ang \u0111\u1ecdc n\u00f3 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. L\u1ea7n n\u00e0y \u00f4ng \u1ea5y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch hay. Nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t nh\u1ecb n\u00e0y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eb1m trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u00f4i su\u1ed1t s\u00e1u \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng qua.     \n Jodie Cook: B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc cu\u1ed1n Tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ch\u01a1i n\u00f3 ch\u01b0a?\n Fabrice Grinda: Ch\u01b0a, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i ng\u1edd r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft ra n\u00f3.\n Jodie Cook: \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t c\u0169 \u2014 b\u1ea3n in th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 t\u1eeb n\u0103m 1941, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1edbm h\u01a1n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 1920. C\u1ee7a Florence Scovel Shinn. N\u00f3 ch\u1ee9a \u0111\u1ef1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n \u0111\u00f3. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u1eeb cu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f3 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t logic, ho\u00e0i nghi v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, \u201ch\u00e3y \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n,\u201d th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n n\u00e0o?     \n Fabrice Grinda: Th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt m\u00e0 n\u00f3i, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ecdc b\u00e0i blog c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. N\u00f3 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u2014 m\u1ea5t kho\u1ea3ng m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc. L\u00fd do n\u00f3 x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0i nghi, l\u00fd tr\u00ed l\u00e0 v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n: \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 t\u01b0 duy khoa h\u1ecdc, l\u00fd tr\u00ed, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u00f4i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch n\u00f3. N\u00f3 ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1ed1t cho nh\u1eefng tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 ho\u00e0i nghi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eadp lu\u1eadn cho l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, so v\u1edbi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 t\u00e2m linh m\u01a1 h\u1ed3 kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. Th\u1eadt d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u201cv\u0169 tr\u1ee5 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cMaya l\u00e0 \u1ea3o \u1ea3nh,\u201d nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u2014 v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i kh\u00e1i qu\u00e1t h\u00f3a t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3.     \n Jodie Cook: B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn b\u00e0i blog \u0111\u00f3 th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch ch\u01b0a?\n Fabrice Grinda: B\u00e0i \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. C\u1ea3 blog n\u00f3i chung th\u00ec kh\u00f3 h\u01a1n. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ee3i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi c\u00e1c con t\u00f4i l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c: nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch phi h\u01b0 c\u1ea5u ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng trung t\u00e2m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i n\u0103m m\u01b0\u01a1i l\u1ea7n. Blog c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 v\u1eady n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 trung t\u00e2m \u2014 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m linh, ho\u1eb7c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng, ho\u1eb7c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 g\u00e2y qu\u1ef9. Vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, vi\u1ec7c ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t nh\u1ecb khi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 kh\u00f3 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00e1n gi\u1ea3, v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u00e0 t\u00f2 m\u00f2 r\u1ea5t \u00edt v\u00e0 th\u01b0a th\u1edbt; h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u h\u1eb9p h\u00f2i h\u01a1n. V\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ec1 r\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp khi\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch xung quanh m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t duy nh\u1ea5t tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.       \n Jodie Cook: Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t sao? Ngay c\u1ea3 khi m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc n\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc, n\u1ebfu t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00edch v\u00e0 k\u1ec3 cho nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01a1n \u2014 t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1. \n Fabrice Grinda: \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u201ctr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi.\u201d Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n vi\u1ebft c\u00f3 t\u00ean l\u00e0 Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng: C\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 \u2014 nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ee3i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng minh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.   \n Jodie Cook: B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? V\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n bao nhi\u00eau tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3? \n Fabrice Grinda: Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, th\u00edch nghi t\u1ed1t, \u0111ang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang \u2014 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, kh\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7n ng\u1eadp. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 l\u1ebd s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft kh\u00e1 s\u1edbm, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 25 ho\u1eb7c 30 tu\u1ed5i. Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i ch\u00fang l\u00e0 b\u1ed1n tu\u1ed5i, hai tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 \u00e2m ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd c\u1ea5y ph\u00f4i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang thai h\u1ed9 v\u00e0o tu\u1ea7n t\u1edbi \u2014 \u0111\u1ee9a th\u1ee9 ba. Con trai t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3: m\u1ed9t n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc, khi n\u00f3 ba tu\u1ed5i, n\u00f3 n\u00f3i n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a em trai. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a con trai \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u1ecbch d\u1ea1i v\u1edbi chi\u1ebfc Seabob v\u00e0 b\u1ecb th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u2014 kh\u00f4ng v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n; tr\u1ebb con l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u chuy\u1ec7n ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n m\u00e0. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi t\u00f4i th\u00f4ng qua n\u00f3. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi n\u00f3: con c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a em trai kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng, r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u1ea7n b\u00fa s\u1eefa, r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i, h\u1ecdc \u0111i kh\u00f4ng? V\u00e0 n\u00f3 n\u00f3i, \u201cV\u00e2ng, nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng em \u1ea5y s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t. Con mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a em trai.\u201d V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129: \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i, v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111ang b\u1ea3o m\u00ecnh h\u00e3y t\u1ea1o cho n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a em trai.         \n T\u00f4i c\u00f3 ph\u00f4i \u0111\u00f4ng l\u1ea1nh t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ebfn tr\u1ee9ng \u2014 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ebfn khi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 con, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 sau m\u1ed9t bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 ayahuasca. N\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u: trong bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp \u2014 n\u00f4n m\u1eeda, kh\u00f3c l\u00f3c, la h\u00e9t. Th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u2014 ca h\u00e1t, nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa, y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, vui v\u1ebb. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 u\u1ed1ng b\u1ed1n c\u1ed1c, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn, trong khi t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i ngh\u0129, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn nay, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y.    \n Nh\u01b0ng b\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u2014 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 qua \u0111\u1eddi h\u01a1n 20 n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u2014 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u. B\u00e0 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 lu\u00f4n c\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u1ea1i vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 con v\u00ec t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ni\u1ec1m tin \u0111\u00f3 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean d\u1eef li\u1ec7u quan s\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c: nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 con c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t kh\u1ecfi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i, h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 than phi\u1ec1n v\u1ec1 con c\u00e1i m\u1ed7i khi t\u00f4i g\u1eb7p h\u1ecd. Nh\u01b0ng b\u00e0 n\u00f3i: con sai r\u1ed3i. Con c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, n\u00ean con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf New York l\u00e0m sai l\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t qu\u00e1 m\u1ee9c (helicopter parents) \u2014 h\u1ecd thay th\u1ebf cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang b\u1eb1ng con c\u00e1i, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i hay nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n n\u1eefa, h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u201cnh\u1eefng b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh\u201d. \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0m th\u1ebf. H\u00e3y c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con v\u00e0 mang con c\u00e1i theo c\u00f9ng; ch\u00fang s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y vui th\u00f4i. Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a con ba v\u00e0 b\u1ed1n tu\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1ee3t tuy\u1ebft b\u1eb1ng tr\u1ef1c th\u0103ng, l\u01b0\u1edbt v\u00e1n di\u1ec1u, leo n\u00fai, nh\u1ea3y d\u00f9 l\u01b0\u1ee3n \u2014 t\u00f4i cho con v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ecbu v\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111i c\u1eafm tr\u1ea1i. \u0110\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. B\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00fang khi n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i gi\u00e1 ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 th\u1ea5p h\u01a1n \u2014 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u2014 so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u00f4i mong \u0111\u1ee3i. V\u00e0 b\u00e0 n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng l\u1ee3i \u00edch mang l\u1ea1i l\u1edbn h\u01a1n t\u00f4i t\u01b0\u1edfng. M\u1ecdi b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng \u201c\u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t\u201d, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadt chung chung. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao b\u00e0 ngh\u0129 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i: con y\u00eau th\u00edch vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3ng d\u1ea1y \u2014 con \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y \u1edf Harvard v\u00e0 Stanford \u2014 v\u00e0 con s\u1ebd th\u00edch d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 con nh\u1eadn ra ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh trong \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 con l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn x\u00e1c. Con th\u00edch ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a \u2014 con ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u0111i\u1ec7n t\u1eed, con \u0111ua xe v\u00e0 m\u00e1y bay \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n t\u1eeb xa. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd cho con m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i c\u1edb th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n l\u1edbn h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafp r\u00e1p Lego v\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1ed9 m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh xe l\u1eeda. Con s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ebfn nay, v\u00e0 con s\u1ebd y\u00eau th\u00edch \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.                 \n Trong bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa ch\u00f3 ch\u0103n c\u1eebu \u0110\u1ee9c m\u00e0u tr\u1eafng gh\u00e9 th\u0103m, n\u00f3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i, m\u1ed9t ng\u1ecdn h\u1ea3i \u0111\u0103ng trong v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 t\u0103m t\u1ed1i \u2014 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa ch\u00f3 tr\u1eafng v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i. B\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 Ghost trong Game of Thrones l\u00e0 h\u01b0 c\u1ea5u, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa ch\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1eadt, m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa ch\u00f3 ch\u0103n c\u1eebu \u0110\u1ee9c m\u00e0u tr\u1eafng. H\u00e3y \u0111i t\u00ecm t\u00f4i. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u00f4i y\u00eau bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 \u0111\u00f3: t\u00f4i \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u1ed9ng th\u00eam con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa ch\u00f3 ch\u0103n c\u1eebu tr\u1eafng, v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 trai c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t b\u00e9 g\u00e1i, v\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c nhau. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p kh\u00e1c t\u1eeb bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0: n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3, h\u00e3y b\u1ecf qua. B\u00e0i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2018 \u2014 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 khi t\u00f4i r\u1eddi C\u1ed9ng h\u00f2a Dominica. Sau bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng: h\u00e3y \u0111i theo nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u m\u00e0 v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111ang g\u1eedi cho b\u1ea1n. V\u1eady n\u00ean m\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 kho\u1ea3ng b\u1ea3y hay t\u00e1m n\u0103m nay t\u00f4i m\u1edbi gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u thay v\u00ec g\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u00e9p m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9.       \n Jodie Cook: Anh c\u00f3 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn chi\u00eam tinh h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng?\n Fabrice Grinda: Kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n. Li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u1ea9n sau n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i thu\u1ed9c ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u201ch\u00e3y th\u1eed d\u00f9ng ch\u1ea5t th\u1ee9c th\u1ea7n, h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u00e0 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9\u201d h\u01a1n \u2014 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n m\u1ed7i n\u0103m, v\u1edbi li\u1ec1u l\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1eb9. Nh\u1eefng bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 chuy\u00ean s\u00e2u, nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, cho \u0111\u1ebfn nay l\u00e0 ba l\u1ea7n. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd xem khi n\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i l\u1ec5 ti\u1ebfp theo v\u1eaby g\u1ecdi.     \n Jodie Cook: V\u1eady cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng anh c\u00f3 tin r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1eb5n kh\u00f4ng?\n Fabrice Grinda: T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 thuy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ec7nh \u1edf c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 v\u0169 tr\u1ee5, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ngh\u0129 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u00fd ch\u00ed t\u1ef1 do c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, c\u1ee5c b\u1ed9 \u2014 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u1ea3o gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. T\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ngh\u0129 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u00fd ch\u00ed t\u1ef1 do c\u1ee5c b\u1ed9 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1, ngay c\u1ea3 khi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u1edf quy m\u00f4 thi\u00ean h\u00e0. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng thi\u00ean h\u01b0\u1edbng, v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 \u0111i theo ch\u00fang hay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta. V\u00ec v\u1eady, v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 tr\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ec7nh, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn c\u00f3 \u00fd ch\u00ed t\u1ef1 do c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u2014 v\u00e0 d\u00f9 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111i n\u1eefa, n\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i k\u1ebft c\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a v\u0169 tr\u1ee5.   \n Jodie Cook: T\u00f4i c\u0169ng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n v\u1edbi n\u00f3 \u2014 vi\u1ec7c ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u1edf c\u00e1c c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00e1c nhau l\u00e0 t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i \u1edf c\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ed9 cao nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng qu\u00e2n b\u00e0i m\u00ecnh c\u00f3. Ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean li\u1ec7u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed \u2014 m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang b\u1ecb l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 tham v\u1ecdng kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.   \n Fabrice Grinda: \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady \u2014 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Alan Watts. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed7i \u0111\u00eam b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u01a1 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi d\u00e0i 80 n\u0103m, l\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd m\u01a1 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7y r\u1eaby kho\u00e1i l\u1ea1c v\u00e0 quy\u1ec1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng sau v\u00e0i \u0111\u00eam, khi \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n m\u1ecdi \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i: c\u00f3 l\u1ebd m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 \u2014 \u0111\u1ec3 xem \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3, th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00e0 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. V\u00e0 khi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00eam ti\u1ebfp theo tr\u00f4i qua, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd m\u01a1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u xa x\u00f4i v\u00e0 hoang d\u1ea1i h\u01a1n \u2014 bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 \u0111au kh\u1ed5, chi\u1ebfn tranh, b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt \u2014 v\u00ec m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng ch\u00ednh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang d\u1eabn d\u1eaft ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tin r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang.      \n Quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i \u0111ang t\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m ch\u00ednh n\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 v\u0169 tr\u1ee5; ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a v\u0169 tr\u1ee5 \u0111ang t\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. V\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 Ch\u00faa \u2014 nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean \u0111i t\u00ednh thi\u00eang li\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, v\u00ec cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t. V\u00e0 l\u00fd do ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh qu\u00ean \u0111i t\u00ednh thi\u00eang li\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m n\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb th\u1ea7n b\u1ea5t t\u1eed, to\u00e0n n\u0103ng, to\u00e0n tri, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n. S\u1ef1 m\u00f4 ph\u1ecfng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m m\u1edbi l\u1ea1 cho m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb th\u1ea7n b\u1ea5t t\u1eed v\u1ed1n \u0111ang bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n. B\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 t\u00ednh th\u1ea7n th\u00e1nh, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c h\u00f3a (manifesting) c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u2014 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng si\u00eau n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c n\u00e0y, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean ch\u00fang th\u00f4i. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 m\u00ecnh t\u00f4i: t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb th\u1ea7n. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb th\u1ea7n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u01a1i di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi Kit\u00f4 gi\u00e1o truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng. H\u1ecd ngh\u0129 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t Thi\u00ean Ch\u00faa l\u00e0 Ch\u00faa Gi\u00easu Kit\u00f4. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 Ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t, nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb th\u1ea7n. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u0169 tr\u1ee5, v\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta l\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t t\u1eadp h\u1ee3p con c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. V\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 Jodie, t\u00f4i l\u00e0 Fabrice \u2014 nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ph\u00e2n h\u00f3a lo\u00e0i v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u0169 tr\u1ee5. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi t\u00f4i d\u00f9ng acid: t\u00f4i nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean t\u1eed c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i b\u00e0n v\u00e0 th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang \u0111ang chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed9ng, v\u00ec gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3ng kh\u00f4ng. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i.                \n Jodie Cook: Anh c\u00f3 d\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng?\n Fabrice Grinda: Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, t\u00f4i lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n v\u0129nh vi\u1ec5n \u2014 kh\u00f4ng chu\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng rung. B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1edf trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u1ebfu trong khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, c\u00e1c th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o c\u1ee9 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c hi\u1ec7n l\u00ean; ngay c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng rung c\u0169ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n xao nh\u00e3ng kh\u1ecfi hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 ngh\u0129 \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i h\u1eefu \u00edch cho vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1ed3i \u2014 t\u00f4i d\u00f9ng WhatsApp su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u00edch xem nh\u1eefng video YouTube h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng l\u01b0\u1edbt m\u1ea1ng v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ecbnh (doom-scrolling). T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea1o n\u1ed9i dung nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ti\u00eau th\u1ee5 n\u1ed9i dung \u2014 t\u00f4i vi\u1ebft c\u00e1c b\u00e0i blog, \u0111\u0103ng b\u00e0i tr\u00ean Instagram, Facebook v\u00e0 YouTube. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng xem TikTok, Instagram hay Facebook nhi\u1ec1u, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng theo d\u00f5i tin t\u1ee9c n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 tin t\u1ee9c v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i b\u1eaby \u2014 m\u1ed9t c\u1ed7 m\u00e1y t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 ph\u1eabn n\u1ed9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec.        \n Jodie Cook: \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 Fabrice Grinda \u2014 nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 thi\u00ean th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 doanh nh\u00e2n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c coi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 theo d\u00f5i anh \u1ea5y tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 xem anh \u1ea5y s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec ti\u1ebfp theo. \u0110i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t t\u1eeb cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n n\u00e0y m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1eed \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec?  \n ","Category":["Ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n &amp; Tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n b\u00ean l\u00f2 s\u01b0\u1edfi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grinda.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70385","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grinda.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grinda.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grinda.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grinda.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=70385"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.grinda.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70385\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":70386,"href":"https:\/\/www.grinda.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/70385\/revisions\/70386"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grinda.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/70335"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.grinda.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=70385"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grinda.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=70385"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.grinda.org\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=70385"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}